being mad at blondie is crazy work ya'll

Ichigo December 15, 2025 5:50 am

I can't belive some of ya'lls comments... sure this is fiction, but the situation and dialogues are quite realistic. The fact that he didnt immediately go "oh yah I think I love you too" is what makes this a good story!! disagree if you want, but glasses guy is in the wrong here. He held onto his feelings for 12 years, felt disappointed and hurt all by himself, finally confessed to the guy and ghosted him immediately without any consideration for HIS feelings and thoughts. He was too consumed by his own pain and cutting ties with blondie and disappearing like that was selfish imo. No matter how much you like someone, they are not obligated to like you back!!! but yes sometimes it means having to leave them if your romantic feelings aren't reciprocated and you can't stay friends either... i guess that's another thing that makes this realistic. People hardly communicate in situations like this in real life, so glasses guy did what you'd normally expect someone to do in a heightened state of emotions. I really like that blondie's response was to take some time to figure out what exactly he's feeling. That's the right thing to do imo!
The one thing blondie did do wrong is when he said "let's date if that's what you want". That being said, it makes the character more human. He's been struggling with trying to figure out why it's been so hard for him without glasses guy, and he said the first thing that came to his mind that he thought would solve the problem. Yes it was thoughtless, but by no means is he a bad person or some shitty asshole.

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    pennyinheaven December 15, 2025 4:11 am

    Sorry but I have to just say this: had Jooan said anything else but what he said, I don't think people would have been upset with Jooan. He did not need to say I love you too or whatever, just recognize that Seojun loved him and he never realized - or something along those lines. Not the "let's be lovers if that's what you wanted just come back and work for me again"

    Nor the "I don't know this feeling" shit. He should have already known. Or at least I don't know if this is love or what is love, all I know is I need you. Because at the least the whole time he was wallowing and shit, he recognizes that he needed Seojun - more than just his secretary. And he could have not offered to take him back as an employee, at least just back as his friend.

    It's no different from an employer offering all the benefits in the world thinking that's enough or money was the only reason the employee left. But the same thing will happen if he came back, employee will still be spit on, thrown stuff on, etc.

    And Seojun has always been considering Jooan's feelings, rather he's always dumbed his feelings for Jooan's sake. He's at Jooan's Beck and call.

    Blup December 15, 2025 8:34 am

    you gotta admit that the blonde guy’s crash out was quite satisfying

    dbriax December 15, 2025 12:32 pm

    exactly bestie but i gotta say no ones in th wrong here, they were just stupidly confused in love and unconsciously down bad for ea. btw, i love how we all using glasses guy and blonde guy to call them instead of their real names lolll