I get the “make them gay via unconsensual sex” part being… tasteless trash but there’s nothing wrong with a dude having ex girlfriends and then getting a boyfriend for the first time. Doesn’t mean they “turned” gay, they just hadn’t thought of the possibility of liking men yet. Vice versa too, a gal having ex boyfriends and ending up with a girlfriend.
wasnt Kendrick seeing the Uncle post-chickening (lmfao)? I do agree a lot of BL authors like to do that sht, its weird, gross and basically homophobic. But I don't think it was the case with this one, he seemed to like the uncle without any coercion nonsense.
I understand your concern though. A lot of these BL writers are actually some of the most anti-gay people you'll find, all they use are harmful and violent ideas. So obvious they don't see gay people as anything other than a taboo fantasy.

Yeah that’s a way too common troupe and it’s weird and uncomfortable. These women be weird fr