Please. I'm with my mom constantly. We don't have a bad relationship anymore but It's something she does, I'm aware of her personality more than you lmao. I'm pretty understanding to peoples issues and problems but you have no fucking idea until you experience that shit.
After a while, you start to realize a person's true intentions. I have siblings who are tired of it too. Explain to me this, she constantly complains about her not having money to support us but goes and buy shit for herself when me and my sister needed the money for basic necessities and school. We couldn't even have a job to buy it for ourselves so we had no option but to rely on her. Even our own distant family members commented on my mom's selfishness and reluctance to buy us new clothes (I remember wearing the same shit from 6th grade on a cycle in LATE HIGHSCHOOL) and hygiene products while she goes out and spends money on expensive perfume, makeup, and clothes.

christ, my mom is exactly like that. It sort of pissed me off seeing it lol. She always blames herself to get sympathy and make herself look like a better person than she is. kms dude