It's not only in yaoi. Have you seen people in real life? Some don't even try to talk about an issue until they bottled it up for a long time that they finally explode (or they fake it till they make it, discreetly). Then you're surprised and it's a big WTF moment
(⊙…⊙ ). But of course just like in yaoi also, there are a few who have good communications skills. Ah, the struggles of life.
(●￣(ｴ)￣●)
Normally I would 100% agree with the non existence of communication skills in yaoi lol but this one so far is such a tough subject. It's not like he can just say "hey I was molested as a young child by a guy and now have trauma surrounding that" even for an adult that would be a super hard thing to say. But if more yaoi can get the "just talk damn It!!" Memo that'd be great
uuuuugh how come people in yaoi is so bad at speaking their feelings