i agree with u (dont get me wrong, im on ur side) but not only will he have to admit to being gay, he'll have to admit to prostitution. Then mom will realize that he has been relying on selling his body for money instead of relying on his mother and she might feel guilty. it would b a really tough decision to own up to that. ╥﹏╥
I don't think it's just yaoi logic. Alot of people aren't aware about asian culture and the social pressure. It's sad that asian parents(not all) would rather choose to hide the fact that their child got raped instead of reporting it for the sake of what the neighbors would think. They wouldn't want to "disgrace" their family name. And the fact that Korea and Japan has the highest suicide rate

You should tell your mom you are gay and this man is blackmailing you because you had sex with him, end of story. But nooooo in yaoi logic = Let's keep getting blackmailed, rapped, hurt and deceiving our mom cause is better ~~