I don't think, that having strong feelings for someone and confessing them is something hateful, ever.
I think you shouldn't beat your self too much over it.(๑•ㅂ•)و✧
No. I don't think so. My motto in life is be selfish. Your happiness and your regrets are all your own. "Blurting out your feelings" was more than the correct response. Take chances at happiness, my friend, even if it might cause discomfort to others. We all chalk it up to experience. Don't hate yourself. Just look back at the fuzzy feelings you had as fond memories and look forward to next time. (●￣(ｴ)￣●)
You did the right thing. I dont think you should hate yourself for it. It's better to walk away and let her go. Though we might feel sad that we lost a friend, you dont deserve to be treated like that.
I have a similar experience. You didn't do anything wrong. She's the one at fault for clinging to you sweetly and leading you on when she knows your feelings. Perhaps she was straight, perhaps she was bi but afraid. Either way, you did nothing wrong. Trust me.
Thank you so much for the kind replies, Guys. :")
I feel better hearing your thoughts since I don't know any irl friends I can be open about this matter.
Once again, thank you and have nice day.
You're welcome fujonyan. Thank you for sharing your stories :) you too have a nice day!
[warning: tldr]
I was used to be in love with another girl, I did confess to her that I saw her more than a friend and I would be okay even if she rejected me.
She told me she loved me too but we couldn't be an item, because we both are girls.
After that lukewarm response, I tried to keep our distance because I didn't want to bother her life furthermore (especially, to protect my own feelings), but she kept sticking to me, telling that she loves me, I was her most special person on her life, and it got my hopes too high.
One day we met on an anime-con..... But shockingly, she brought along her new boyfriend and introduced us. I tried to look happy for them even though I really was in shock until I couldn't hold back my tears at public bus on my way home. (well, gratefully I could face the window so nobody else notice a random fully grown young woman cried because she had her heart broken lol).
Few years has passed and now I am no longer in touch with her. When I rethink about it, I really was the selfish one for blurting my feelings out and making her confused. I tried to move on, but this self-hatred is inevitable.