I don't agree with you about 'yaoi tend to be close minded' as there are many different types of yaoi's but i am with you 100% on the subject of open relationships.
Well yeah sorry, certainly I was generalizing, i'm aware theres diversity in yaoi as well since there's all kind of authors! I guess I said that based on when yaoi slightly touch subjects out of the norm but end up going for cliché endings dismissing those subjects :c I mean no harm o/
I am sorry, i was not criticizing you or your opinion. I don't necessary think it is wrong or that you should change it, i just didn't agree with it (sorry if i am over explaining- i tend to be misunderstood which makes me over explain and funnily it does more harm than good- lol)
You are right there are alot of yaois that 'slightly touch subjects out of the norm but end up going for cliché endings dismissing those subjects', i have come to think of it as a yaoi tendency and not really overthink about the yaoi that does it or dismissed them as bad or unworthy but love and celebrate those that does not fall into those category.
Oh hey no need to be sorry either! I didn't think you were critizicing, I just felt to clarify that is not that I'm against those yaoi or that i am ignoring all the other manga that do fall out of the norm. Actually usually i don't go on pointing out yaoi like that, I was just puzzled by how people was bashing open relationships even if this manga was or not about that subject. I feel ya and agree with you as well o/
I SWEAR THIS has to be one of the best disagreements yet. It d idnt end in swearing and down grading eachother option and you even cleared a misunderstanding. THANK you so much for ur civilization UvU)d
Even when the seme is probably being considerate, I still wonder why people is so mad about open relationships. Not every relationship is the same, and different things work for different people, is totally fine if it doesn't work for you, but theres no need to bash on people that enjoy it. And actually is great that this manga shows a bit of it without the typical hassles of yaoi, so far. (they probably wont keep it forever because yaoi tend to be close minded xD)
Anyway, I love the uke, he's so beautiful ;_;