That's just an excuse for his behavior it's no one fault but his own how he use sex to feel a void. I fucking hate the uke I don't even want to read this because it annoys the hell out of me
and I will not force you to. Your reaction is understandable because it's true he is annoying and detestable. However, my tolerance for his type has provided me with time and energy to dig through the roots of his psychology, which is where I'm coming from. Something shaped him to be what he is now and for me, he is his own victim. Do i care about him? I don't know. He can make his own demise. I'll have to see how he'll develop throughout the story.
And to clear things up before i get misunderstood: it's true I'm more understanding of his behavior and therefore more tolerant but that does not mean I'm advocating it. He's a brat who needs some spanking but to keep my annoyance rational, i must try to understand him.
i know people are hating on the uke so I'm probably one of the few who's ok with him. he's a totally flawed man but deep down he's just someone who wants to be loved. people had this wrong impression of him that made them think he'll never get serious with them too. a relationship is a mutual affair so don't blame all the asshole-ness on the uke alone. his partners in the past were assholes too. it's like when... you are the funny guy in the group but when you finally get serious (say you're actually depressed on time or is actually mad about something), people still think you're joking around so they don't take you seriously. humans are complicated and flawed beings, everyone. there is always another side to things. yes, it may be his fault but remember that there is no perfect being ever. he's ultimately someone who's trying to find love. who knows? maybe in the end he'll learn to be himself more, now that he's found the person who has kniwn his other side. let's see how the story will unfold..