Finally, someone said it.
The only time in manga when I really felt sad for Jaeha.
This comment! I couldnt agree more
i don't usually leave replies but this comment deserves more views!
i agree with everything you've said, although also saying things from Eunho's perspective on the marriage thing, i know he's still quite young and new to the experience of requited love, but he's said this before: he's loved Jaeha for a long, long while now. he's gone through a lot of heartbreak with Jaeha even before they got together, and he waited for him for so long, so being a little hasty might be attributed to that. that being said, it's still not cool for him to just drop the idea of marriage out of nowhere, so everyone has personal issues to deal with before anything happily conclusive can happen.
Thank you for this comment(⌒▽⌒)
Some of you guys....this is quite literally a compilation of all the other people defending Jaeha. Its just in one massive paragraph <.<
Also, if I can remember not everyone know Jaeha isn't straight (including wife).
I could only imagine what it would be like to openly say he is dating a guy now-and it's Eunho.
I agree but if that was the case he shouldn't have played with Eunho feelings from point one. He was well aware of Eunho feelings from the beginning. That,s why Eunho's sister said what she did to him regarding her brother. In my opinion, the promise of marriage by them was a game to everyone but Eunho. I understand everything going on with Jaeha is very hard for him. I get that. But there comes a time when enough is enough. It's time to move on from the old scars and submit to the love, which is the only thing that can heal and cancel out some of those bad memories of the past. Eunho is the more mature one to me because taking being dump on vacation like that. Lol Talk about a low blow.
Well u can't just decided to move on from emotional scars. It doesn't work that way. Sometimes people don't realize the constant cycle they throw themselves until shit happens. I'm sure hyung didn't intend to hurt him but he also didn't anticipate his scars to pull him into that cycle again. He probably didn't realize it happened until IT ACTUALLY HAPPENED. Nobody purposely sets themselves up.
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Yeah I agree with everything you said but what perfect time would it be to break the cycle when you have someone by your side. It's just plan stupid to believe that you can help yourself by doing the same old unhealthy things you were doing before. Jaeha needs someone who loves him by his side during this time. A RIDE OR DIE BITCH. Which he definitely has in Eunho. Jaeha has a problem with marriage, that's fine. Talk it out! Tell Eunho you need time. There are so many alternatives than just breaking up. Go on a vacation by yourself. Go to the park. Join a yoga club. Whatever you need to do break the cycle or you could risk making your old scars even deeper. By hurting Eunho. Just foolishness.
that yoga club thoo
Lol
I don't think anyone really understands what Jaeha is going through. Your parents divorcing when you're young can leave you with some scars if not handled properly. He's been through a lot and doesn't see a lot of self worth in himself, which is why he thinks doesn't deserve to be loved. He's still fucked up about his own RECENT divorce and that's only natural. I feel like Eunho is moving a bit too fast and it's a lot pressure for Hyung to handle. I feel this wouldn't have happened if Eunho learned to just go slow for a bit and just enjoy going out. He started with the marriage talk and of course that would scare anyone. Hell, if I started dating a guy and after about month or so of dating he slams a ring down in front of me it would scare me off as well! Idk, I guess I just feel like it's so realistic because shit just isn't a happy fairytale at the end of the day. Jaeha has clearly only found his body to be the only good part of himself and he has abandonment issues so bad he basically sabotages himself. I can totally understand him and i am NOT pissed at him at all. He just needs a breather I think, to find the happiness within himself. I want him to be happy more than anything and I think Eunho is too immature to get that with how young he is. Things aren't so black and white, ya know.