Amen to that!
Are there two people who share this screen name? Because after all this time I really thought I would never see YOU victim-blaming someone.
He went to HIS apartment (the apartment that he just HAPPENED to share with someone he had feelings for but who was NOT his ex as you ERRONEOUSLY claim) to pick up some stuff and he had a COLD and fainted. How the F*** can someone blame him for something that is out of his control? And MOST people would look at the Uke and think he's in the wrong BECAUSE he's 'fragile' just like you JUST did. UMMMMMMMMMMM... NOPE. Thanks.
And when I'm talking about blaming him I'm not taking about Kang. I'm talking about the people who are SUPPOSEDLY reading this.
You argue that he's a victim, i'm arguing that he's not a victim and is bringing this on himself. I was using the term "ex" loosely, i didn't mean that they had literally dated. Hyunwoo is the last person Subin had feelings for and he is now pretending to try and move on, if you can think of a better term to describe that then please tell me. You mention that Subin had a cold and fainted, but did Hyung know that? I believe that Subin just said something about it in his head during that scene? I'll have to look back. Either way, i fail to see how the illness is relevant... You act like a common cold is unmanageable, anyone can tell when they have a cold at that level of severity and choose to do the smart thing and rest after taking medicine. Do you think Subin should have left to where Hyunwoo is in a state that could leave him staying there over night knowing Hyung's feelings on the Hyunwoo matter?THIS is what i'm talking about when i bring up that he's the uke, you heard"subin's sick" and immediately ran to his defense rather than thinking logically and realizing that Subin CHOSE himself to go to Hyunwoo's in his fragile state. Keep in mind that Hyunwoo has already told Subin that he has feelings for him and that Subin knows Hyung doesn't even want him talking to Hyunwoo, Subin chose to go over to the home of a guy that confessed to him in a weak state that said guy could take advantage of knowing that he wasn't feeling good and that his boyfriend wouldn't want him there alone with Hyunwoo.
-Read my last response to you before this one- I'd really like you to know that i would never intentionally victim-blame someone, the thing is, i don't consider him a victim for the reasons stated above. If you can convince me that he is a victim then i'll take back what i said as that'll actually be victim-blaming, but till then i just see it as me calling Subin on his shit.
There're actually comments here saying that Hyung was AT ALL responsible for what just happened?! There are certain things you can no longer do while in a relationship, staying the night at an ex's being one of those things.You know what, to make a point i'm going to change up the situation: imagine that this is a shoujo manga with hyung as the girlfriend and hyunwoo as the mc's (subin's) dream girl, can any of you tell me that you'd blame the girlfriend for getting mad at her boyfriend for going to his crush's house and staying the night while he ignores her calls? Would you honestly blame her if she thought he slept with her and kicked him out? The point is that because Subin is portrayed as the fragile uke you want to look at him as the "girl" and protect him, even when he's clearly 100% the reason why their relationship is failing.