"all that talk about bi, gay, hetero.
I do not want to disappoint you but just because a man has gay sex does not make him gay right away."
There is no magical number of sexual encounters that decides one sexual orientation. It's not like, "I'm not gay unless I have sex with a guy 50 times within a 3 month period!" or whatever. You don't need to have *any* sexual encounters at all to be gay, bi, hetero, pan etc.
While there are men who have sex with each other for reasons besides physical pleasure and/or emotional connection, Yuuya isn't one of them. This manga presents him pretty clearly as a self-hating queer, albeit in the most over-the-top and simplistic way imaginable.
Not the number, but the attraction. since the manga does tshow much about him. I'll leave it just that.
It is obvious that I don't have to have sex to determine/know my sexual orientation. I saw no need to write about it.
However, first of all it wasn't my Intention to write a report or an explanation regarding this topic and it's still not so, I was more focused on those comments with the "who has sex with a man is gay"-theory.
At one point I can't completely agree with you. For me it's still to vague to call the EX an self-hating-queer.
And I will stick to it, whatever the reason, he's an ass.
all that talk about bi, gay, hetero.
I do not want to disappoint you but just because a man has gay sex does not make him gay right away. it is more about sexual satisfaction and pleasure than attraction to the same sex. Curiosity doesn't make you gay. Because it feels good it doesn't need a name.
also men in a heterosexual relationship like it from the back and because it's more authentic they want the real thing.
and in relation to the manga:
I do not know the whole story of their relationship, but the ex has drawn clear lines. He prefered less emotional attachment, wanted only sex, just from behind, with no eye contact. I do not know if he has an identity problem, but all I know is that he is a nasty guy and the scene after the reunion makes me really angry.
Reminds me of these hateful women / men / ex / people whom one sees again after eternity, who wish that only bad things will happen to you. Who want to make you look bad infront of people, who probably want to take revenge on you, but for most of it, just want to humilate you because destroying someones happiness feels great for them. Disgusting.
Yeah, and that's what he did.
What an asshole.