Using violence with anyone is messed up
True, but sometimes violence is needed, the only example i can think of is punching a nazi, but maybe there's more. Violence for anything else is fucked up
That's just how the comedy for this manhua is and has always been. Violence and awkward situations. I think what makes people accept it in one pair (Zhan kneed Jian's nose at the sleepover and made it bleed but??) is that He Tian is tall, muscular, and intimidating looking. That is they have a significant size and height gap. But people don't mind Zhan and Jian doing it because they are similar in size and neither one particularly intimidating looking. Mo looks more helpless and small next to He Tian than Jian does next to Zhan. Less even playing field. The "but Jian sexually harassed him so he deserves it" stuff just sounds like excuses because if anything that would make things worse not better but ppl let them slide but not He Tian and Mo. （￣へ￣）
I don't think violence is acceptable even there ,,
Size doesn't matter dear the main couple mostly are joking but here it's serious
The size matters. It's why the fandom is full of hypocrisy. It's because He Tian looks intimidating people don't let him slide as easily as the small and less scary Xi. :v But both the sleepover knee attack and the schoolyard kick involved an actiony looking scene, blood, and an annoyed Xi and Tian. Both scenes involved Yi or Mo doing something to piss the other off (Yi flashing, Mo cussing him out). Yet one scene had an explosion of criticism while the other did not. :V Neither scene btw nor any of the other violent scenes except for the Zhan vs Mo and She Li vs He Tian fight ever got addressed in the plot. If Old Xian did take them seriously where's the chapters on them being discussed? Because those other fights got an arc, plot, etc.
I respect ur opinion but I don't agree, I mean if the guy is ur size and u let him hit u that is ur choice and the hit will not be that painful anyway ,,, but clearly mou isn't fine with he tian hitting him but he is scared and he tried to defend himself in the earlier chapters but he couldn't since he tian is very strong and much stronger than him .. anyway don't say we are hypocrites just because we don't agree with u ,, it is useless to keep arguing just enjoy the manga ok
But using violence to the person you're interested to to do what you want them to is just messed up bruh