is it bad to like yaoi?

yaoinoobster December 17, 2017 2:41 am

i’ve heard a lot of antis on tumblr say that fujoshis pretty much fetishize and stereotype gay men and don’t actually care about the struggles of the lgbt community. what are your thoughts on this? i’m really just curious, being a fujoshi myself

Responses
    Ben is a Hoe December 17, 2017 4:15 am

    Okay. Here’s the thing. A lot of yaoi is essentially just porn, because some women like guy on guy stuff. (Men can openly liked girl on girl stuff, but for some reason when a women likes guy on guy stuff it’s weird.) anyway, there are also romance stories, romantic comedy yaoi, fantasy yaoi and other things. But point blank, most people read it because they find guy on guy sex hot. And that’s okay. The problem comes when you can’t separate fiction from reality and you take your porn and try to stick it in real life situations. That’s what some people do, and it’s usually the younger people who really shouldn’t be reading it in the first place.

    yaoinoobster December 17, 2017 4:30 am
    Okay. Here’s the thing. A lot of yaoi is essentially just porn, because some women like guy on guy stuff. (Men can openly liked girl on girl stuff, but for some reason when a women likes guy on guy stuff it�... Ben is a Hoe

    what do you consider young?

    yaoinoobster December 17, 2017 4:31 am
    what do you consider young? yaoinoobster

    also i’m not sure why that long post was included on my message so sorry about that

    Ben is a Hoe December 17, 2017 4:36 am
    what do you consider young? yaoinoobster

    I mean some people are under 15 reading it, and they really shouldn’t be.

    chizaman December 17, 2017 4:39 am
    I think none of you is lgbt have lgbt friends, have been to a lgbt center places @Anonymous

    I do. Not a particularly close friend, not really much of a friend either...but I know 'im. Sort of. And I'm queer...according to tumblr, anyway.

    justme December 17, 2017 4:49 am
    I think none of you is lgbt have lgbt friends, have been to a lgbt center places @Anonymous

    I took an LGBT course in this semester. We learned tons about the gay community and its history. There were openly gay, trans, and lesbian people in that class and I can proudly say they are my friend. We also visited an LGBT center dedicated to helping counsel transgender youths who need positive advice. So, no I am not LGBT but yes, I have LGBT friends and have been to an LGBT center.

    yaoinoobster December 17, 2017 4:50 am
    I think none of you is lgbt have lgbt friends, have been to a lgbt center places @Anonymous

    oh i don’t have friends at all sooo.

    Anonymous December 17, 2017 5:17 am
    I do. Not a particularly close friend, not really much of a friend either...but I know 'im. Sort of. And I'm queer...according to tumblr, anyway. chizaman

    asexuals are not queer

    chizaman December 17, 2017 5:19 am
    asexuals are not queer @Anonymous

    "according to tumblr..."

    chizaman December 17, 2017 5:20 am
    "according to tumblr..." chizaman

    I'm aware.

    Nagai December 17, 2017 5:46 am
    I think a lot of fujoshis do take it way too far and only see gay men as a porn category. When I was in high school there were several girls who would act super creepy around my gay male friend, called his rela... Misha

    Well I guess it's just some people that do that but honestly, I haven't met any or read fujoshis do that. I think it's just people in your school or area? Because no one at my school acts like that really and personally, I like yaoi for the romance and development and skip most of the sex scenes. So if you don't like the sex scenes, then skip them too. I suggest picking multiple pages and using a laptop or something with a mouse to quickly scroll down if you are that disturbed

    Nagai December 17, 2017 5:52 am

    I don't really know but personally, I think it's good to like yaoi because people who like yaoi can't really say I don't like gay people since they read gay things... I had neutral feelings towards the lgtb+ community because I didn't even know what it was about until 6th grade. I'm a person who is accepting in the first place and isn't that against things so liking yaoi just futher makes me support the lgtb community because it shows that romance between same gender people are the same as the romance between any couple, different gender or not. So personally, I care about the community. I would stick up for anyone who's getting bullied. I don't know where people get the thought that people who like yaoi don't care about the community but they're not me so I don't know how they think.

    SSam December 17, 2017 5:58 am

    HaHaHa... I've stopped care about this... Mom, I'm all grown up ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ actually its not totally wrong. There're some fujoshis who're homophobic and some who fetishize them. Extremist exists in all field of life. They're antis so they said it. And if it were totally false this anti group would never exist.
    In our religion perspection reading yaoi supposed to be a deadly sin so of course its not good. If you're an atheist, you'll have to face a bunch of people bitching you if they knows you're fujoshi. So just stop thinking and do whatever you enjoy! Stay safe!!

    yaoinoobster December 17, 2017 6:28 am
    HaHaHa... I've stopped care about this... Mom, I'm all grown up ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ actually its not totally wrong. There're some fujoshis who're homophobic and some who fetishize them. Extremist exists in all f... SSam

    thanks! stay safe as well.

    Angel.yt December 17, 2017 8:16 am

    HOW THE FUCK DO YOU SEUXALIZE GAY MEN ( I know some people do, and I’ve seen it) BUT HOW


    LIKE OH MY GAY FRIEND LIKES THE SAUSAGE OBVIOUSLY HE JUST NEEDS ANY MALE WHATS SO EVER TO PUT IS PONY INTO, OH AND THE SEX SCENES ARE ENTIRELY REALISTIC, ALL WE NEED IS SOME THRUSTIN BOO AND TWO HOT MEN AAHAHAHA.

    stop

    yaoinoobster December 17, 2017 3:26 pm
    HOW THE FUCK DO YOU SEUXALIZE GAY MEN ( I know some people do, and I’ve seen it) BUT HOWLIKE OH MY GAY FRIEND LIKES THE SAUSAGE OBVIOUSLY HE JUST NEEDS ANY MALE WHATS SO EVER TO PUT IS PONY INTO, OH AND THE S... Angel.yt

    what

    yaoinoobster December 17, 2017 3:26 pm
    HOW THE FUCK DO YOU SEUXALIZE GAY MEN ( I know some people do, and I’ve seen it) BUT HOWLIKE OH MY GAY FRIEND LIKES THE SAUSAGE OBVIOUSLY HE JUST NEEDS ANY MALE WHATS SO EVER TO PUT IS PONY INTO, OH AND THE S... Angel.yt

    what