
but isn't the shop he work at is crossdressing so maybe that why he look like a girl more with the long hair

Exactly. Like men and women think very differently biologically, and he just acts like a female, especially those females in shoujo manga. I've dropped it on the second chapter, I couldn't take it anymore.

I wanted yaoi not shoujo

And when I mean yaoi, I'm not only there for the sex. I'm there for the characters, the plot, the art, the development and progression between a male x male relationship

You can give me a skinny, twinky bult male all you want and I will love it but not when he acts like a girl in yaoi. It just shows bad character development and adaptability on mangaka part. Male x female relationship are Very different to male x male relationship and female x female relationships. Many fujoshi's came to yaoi to enjoy the bond between two males.

Its possible (⌒▽⌒)
I'm probs gonna be hated for this, but I'm bothered at how feminine he looks. It doesn't feel like yaoi at all huhuhu. But don't get me wrong, I like the story and art, and Nanao is gorgeous, but-- oh well...