I´m curious to know how many of u would say yes to his proposal. Vote! I go with yes lol ...

lily January 22, 2018 7:22 am

I´m curious to know how many of u would say yes to his proposal. Vote! I go with yes lol
Like = yes
Dislike= no

Responses
    SeoInHan January 22, 2018 9:58 am

    Putting myself in the situation I'd agree and then probably torture him lol after all it's pretty fucking obvious he needs me to agree; specially because he literally just said he can't have sex with just anyone. Him saying that he'd find someone else is a bluff. So sure, say yes, but it's my rules (︶︿︶)

    Provocative-Pizza January 22, 2018 10:20 am
    Putting myself in the situation I'd agree and then probably torture him lol after all it's pretty fucking obvious he needs me to agree; specially because he literally just said he can't have sex with just anyon... SeoInHan

    But what if you didn't know that he actually needed you? Would you still say yes?

    youraedthiswrogn January 22, 2018 12:10 pm

    Fuck no i wouldn't say yes!I consider myself to be emotionally weak when it comes to romance, i fall easily and hard, but even i would have to stop and be like "what the fuck did he just say"? He was SUCH a cunt just now, like holy shit. How little self-respect would you have to have to say yes to that? Don't get me wrong, sex friends are fine, it's the WAY he went about propositioning him that was too damn much, it was like it was an inconvenience to him and in his eyes the uke is lucky... Disgusting.

    SeoInHan January 22, 2018 5:49 pm
    But what if you didn't know that he actually needed you? Would you still say yes? Provocative-Pizza

    It's not really hard to notice that he does in fact need "me" as I have mentioned before: he clearly stated that he can't just do it with anyone. I'm pretty good at analyzing people, but let's say that (by some fucking miracle) his proposal (idk gets my fangirl side going because of who he's supposed to be) and I can't think straight then I would probably decline.

    youraedthiswrogn January 23, 2018 2:11 am
    It's not really hard to notice that he does in fact need "me" as I have mentioned before: he clearly stated that he can't just do it with anyone. I'm pretty good at analyzing people, but let's say that (by some... SeoInHan

    Okay, but if we're going off the scenario described in the manga, you don't know he needs you, or at least it never crosses the uke's mind. What was said is "i haven't had sex lately", "you'll do fine since it'd be a pain to find a partner who wont put me at risk" and "this is good for you, you get to be fucked by me. don't develop feelings or treat me like your boyfriend". Do you see what the other guy was saying? You're saying "oh, well if it was me..." while taking yourself outside of the context.

    SeoInHan January 23, 2018 3:33 am
    Okay, but if we're going off the scenario described in the manga, you don't know he needs you, or at least it never crosses the uke's mind. What was said is "i haven't had sex lately", "you'll do fine since it'... youraedthiswrogn

    That's why I said that if there was anything clouding judgement I would decline. If I were to really put myself in the MC's exact position I would decline. The original question asked "how many of you would say yes to his proposal" meaning that we are putting ourselves in the situation or at least it isn't forcing us to take the position of the MC.

    youraedthiswrogn January 23, 2018 3:56 am
    That's why I said that if there was anything clouding judgement I would decline. If I were to really put myself in the MC's exact position I would decline. The original question asked "how many of you would say... SeoInHan

    Okay, so if Alex came up to you while you were completely sober and said "hey, let me fuck you, it's too inconvenient for me too find a random partner, but don't grow feelings for me or think of me fondly", you'd say yes? It's one thing for someone to be like "hey, want to hook up" and another for someone to tell you that you're the most convenient tool on hand and present the deal as an ultimatum like you'd be losing out if you say no. I feel like i respect you more than you respect yourself if you can honestly tell me you'd say yes in that position.

    SeoInHan January 23, 2018 6:52 am
    Okay, so if Alex came up to you while you were completely sober and said "hey, let me fuck you, it's too inconvenient for me too find a random partner, but don't grow feelings for me or think of me fondly", you... youraedthiswrogn

    I don't know how else to tell you that I'd decline smh

    youraedthiswrogn January 23, 2018 7:30 am
    I don't know how else to tell you that I'd decline smh SeoInHan

    You aren't saying you'd decline, you're saying "if this happened, i'd decline.", while saying you'd accept. The question was "would you accept the seme's proposal", which means if you heard the words the seme just said to the uke, would you say yes? You've been saying you would accept, but would decline if you were under outside influences. Okay, take all the outside influences out and you're left with the basic question he asked with that same condescending tone he asked it in. Do you see what i'm saying?

    SeoInHan January 23, 2018 7:58 am
    You aren't saying you'd decline, you're saying "if this happened, i'd decline.", while saying you'd accept. The question was "would you accept the seme's proposal", which means if you heard the words the seme j... youraedthiswrogn

    I'm not dumb, trust me; I know what you're saying. You're honestly giving me a head ache though, and I don't mean to insult you by saying that either it's just I am trying to figure out why you are so upset by all this. It's not even a real situation for God's sake it's literally a fictional world in a genre that tends to bend rules all the friggin time. I would say yes if I felt in control of the situation and I'd decline if I didn't. If I were in the MC's shoes I'd decline because who the fuck is he to order me around? In actuality I'd never even bother talking to someone like Alex: one because he screams douchebag and two because I'm antisocial. However if I were in the MC's shoes I'd see how a proposal like that would seem tempting (I'm definitely the total opposite of the MC so putting myself in his shoes is hard enough as it is). But let's be real since I legit want to put an end the this dragged convo: if this situation was happening to me IRL I'd fucking get out.

    youraedthiswrogn January 23, 2018 9:47 am
    I'm not dumb, trust me; I know what you're saying. You're honestly giving me a head ache though, and I don't mean to insult you by saying that either it's just I am trying to figure out why you are so upset by ... SeoInHan

    I'm not upset and i don't think you're dumb, i'm trying to help you understand what i'm saying, that is the only reason i keep replying to you. You say you understand what i'm saying, but your responses tell me you don't. I'll put it bluntly, you're injecting context where context is already established. The OP was asking what your choice would be if the seme gave you that same proposal, but you're changing the context saying "oh, well if it was like this i'd respond this way". What i'm saying is that you're answering the question out of context and you keep saying "i understand what you're saying" and then still answering out of context. You can ignore the uke's role in the context, since the question is about the seme, meaning you don't have to have an already established crush on Alex or be a virgin, etc. But the seme's portion has to be the same, he has to say those words with that tone to you.

    SeoInHan January 23, 2018 8:52 pm
    I'm not upset and i don't think you're dumb, i'm trying to help you understand what i'm saying, that is the only reason i keep replying to you. You say you understand what i'm saying, but your responses tell me... youraedthiswrogn

    By the way sorry if I sound mean. Contrary to how I write English is not my first language and I know I sound like an ass and don't make sense at times. But I'm telling you straight up. No games. No tricks. No what ifs. No this or that. FOR REAL I'd say no.

    youraedthiswrogn January 23, 2018 10:19 pm
    By the way sorry if I sound mean. Contrary to how I write English is not my first language and I know I sound like an ass and don't make sense at times. But I'm telling you straight up. No games. No tricks. No ... SeoInHan

    Alright, i understand. Your english was easily understandable, though i'll admit there was some negative intonation within your writing. I try not to get upset when text looks rude because it's text and the person might not mean it that way. I just try to communicate to make sure of their intentions, you went out of your way to tell me you weren't trying to be mean so i chose not to get offended at anything and take your text at face value to respond appropriately.

    SeoInHan January 24, 2018 3:33 am
    Alright, i understand. Your english was easily understandable, though i'll admit there was some negative intonation within your writing. I try not to get upset when text looks rude because it's text and the per... youraedthiswrogn

    I've always tried to fix that since my spoken English is better but my writing could use some work ╥﹏╥

    youraedthiswrogn January 24, 2018 12:48 pm
    I've always tried to fix that since my spoken English is better but my writing could use some work ╥﹏╥ SeoInHan

    Well, you communicated with me and i appreciate that.