I understand your explanation and I like the idea of Euno having a plan, but I don't think that keeping Jaeha close him by making him feel guilty is a healthy way to start a relationship :s
I completely agree. However, neither of these people are currently in healthy mindsets. Jaeha has hidden himself for so long he has no idea how to even be honest with himself and Euno had his heart stepped on at the high point of his life and then jumped into military service where emotions are not an asset. So, Euno has never really had an opportunity to let go of all that pain properly. That doesn't mean they can learn to be healthy together though. Sometimes it takes a screwup to help heal another screwup so they can stop being screwups together. Of the two, Euno is the "more healthy" though he's far from "completely healthy". I mean really, is ANYONE "completely healthy" if we're being totally honest? We all have a demon or two lurking, whether it is an addiction to nicotine, a jealous streak, or a fetish for LOLCats videos. Those cat videos can ruin your life! LOL
Crap! That doesn't mean they *can't learn to be healthy together. Up all night reading yaoi dies a number on my eyes and spelling! LOL
xD hahah, I understand ;)
I share your opinion, but I do hope that they don't stretch the mean-Euno-period too long :s
I agree with you there too. I don't think my heart could take it. A nice, healthy balance of strong and sweet suits Euno better than "dick mode" and it's also what Jaeha needs... a good man who loves him, but also won't let him walk all over them or run away.
Now I'm wondering if this isn't a "dose of Jeaha's own medicine" type of lesson from Euno. I used that tactic on my kids when they were young. Kind of, "How do you like it? This is how the other person felt when you were acting this way." Then, when they felt bad for what they did, I consoled them and reminded them that their words and actions affect others and they must think before they speak or act. It usually worked well and they became more conscious of those around them. Jaeha has never really had anyone to guide his life. His parents had only expectations that he couldn't achieve. He may think that nothing he does matters to anyone except himself. That would explain his reoccurring selfish patterns. Dear goddess! I think about thus stuff way too seriously! LOL
I'm beginning to think Euno has a plan. Jaeha can't lead in a relationship, he's too cowardly. The first sign of trouble and he bolts. He needs a strong partner to hold him, support him and drag him forward when the time comes. Has Euno realized this and is he trying to be that man for Jaeha? He's being a dick right now, but maybe that is what will get Jeaha's attention. Jaeha would never accept Euno if he were gentle and kind, not now. He would bolt again. BUT, if he is made to feel guilty for having made Euno a jerk, that might keep him around long enough for Euno to get him to realize how much they love each other. Maybe?