. . . eh.

Wayne February 28, 2018 7:09 am

I've never commented in this one, but. . . I has to now (/TДT)/

I mean, I understand why Eunho might be doing this. . . and I don't blame him in a 60%. But what he's doing is just not. . . right.

In one side we have Jaeha and they showed us why he is the way he is. No matter how much people try to give Eunho the reason, Jaeha has his own scars, too. And people are forgetting his side.
Scars like the ones Jaeha has are hard to get over with too. And in my perspective, his wounds are... deeper, somehow. He had his love for the teacher, the teacher sworn he loved him back too... just to have it completely denied at the end. (Or at least that's how I saw it?) SO. Of course Jaeha would be cautious around love. Around letting someone in. And OF COURSE is totally understandable that he ran away from Eunho. Even more so after he saw what Eunho wanted to do (which was seal the deal with a ring).

And no, I am not invalidating Eunho's pain.
I get it too.
He's been loving this one guy since he was a kid and when he finally had him, and all seemed to be flowers and rainbows, the guy cut him off. I MEAN I GET IT, IT MUST HURT. And it is a completely valid scar too.

HOWEVER.
That last line? The one about pushing Jaeha to a corner so he would /feel/ cornered and without any exit? That's not okay. No matter how hurt someone is. This is turning into one of those... not creepy... but creepy things?

They both need to sit their asses down and TALK. Not roll around in bed and pull out the sadist cards. That won't help solve their problem, even less so when it's evident (or it was?) that they were meant to be. That they loved and cared for each other.

I just... I needed to get this out of my chest but fuck, I'm so exasperated right now I'm gonna go ballistic (/TДT)/

Responses
    maya me February 28, 2018 8:45 am

    Well said.

    ifpigscouldfly24 February 28, 2018 2:56 pm

    ^ Yup, I agree. Very well said.

    GayLion March 1, 2018 1:44 am

    Precisely, they are both in the wrong and thought they are allowed to feel that way they shouldn’t act that way. At one point or another they both did something shitty to the other, usually due to not communicating. I think there are still meant to be but now I don’t have a side. Originally I was against Jaeha, then Eunho, then Jaeha again, but now I think I am done choosing sides. They need to get together, talk, and love one another (not in the sex sense but if they want to do that too then I am down)