There are a lot of yaoi without rape and with respect for the uke though ...
yeap you are definetly right rape not always right there but ı am sure in most yoi although uke says no seme keeps doing what he wants soooooooo ı read them anyway ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I need links
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/here_u_are/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sono_koi_ni_wa_wake_ga_aru/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/himitsu_ga_hanazono/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/cherry_blossoms_after_winter/?av=2
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/idol_kun_wa_koi_wo_shiranai/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/motoyan_papa_to_hitsuji_sensei/
what how no rape and respect for uke's thoughts and holding back seme ı mean this is a yaoi right (⊙…⊙ ) anyway ı really want to see this kind of seme and cute pure love they are so cuteヾ(☆▽☆)