
Probably gonna get a lot of hate for this comment, but its stuff like that that prevented me from being able to get into K-pop. There are fan girls writing "fan fiction" about real people, treating them as though they're characters or play things. They take real people and write up different personalities, opinions, beliefs, and thoughts for them, like they're objects or dolls. They bastardize their families and friends to write, in most cases, porn about real life people. I try not to take this so seriously, but if somebody were to do that to me I'd be seriously disturbed and feel super violated. But celebrities just have to accept it. Its too sad to me. I know I shouldn't take it so seriously, but it feels like such a violation to me so I can't understand how people can say they care about these "stars" as people and then turn around and objectify them.

They were apparently bullying her because they thought she was a fake and getting in the way of the gay romance between two of the members...lol yeah. I remember one of the other members got so frustrated he commented publicly to leave them alone and that he couldn't even feel comfortable standing too close to the others in public for fear of everyone shipping them. That also happened with 2 YouTubers I know who stopped taking public pictures together. Like two of 1D's band members are now fathers and people still ship them...Just no. Shipping is ok with fictional characters imo, but when it comes to real people....there is a line that can be crossed.

I don't really get people who does that sort of thing, shipping real people like wtf? That's so uncomfortable even for me. That's why I never bothered with their personal lives like I don't even follow them on insta. I don't get too attach with people in general, liking their work is enough for me, even in fictions too if it's not canon then I'm not a stan lol.
"They took the liberty of creating a relationship between us without knowing anything about us."
That's how I feel about fangirls who take it way too far and they start shipping real life people and go crazy harassing them and making all these sexually inappropriate comments constantly on their social media. I see it with celebrities all the times for example, or any public figures, like youtubers. I see girls harass those One Direction members, bullying one of their girlfriends in the past, and crazily obsessing over their every interaction. It's so messed up. It's always usually younger girls. People need to separate real life from fiction.