For once I'm in the other side.

Wayne March 26, 2018 9:34 pm

Jaeha baby doesn't deserve this >.>

I'm usually the first to love/support and shit the 'bad one' in stories.
But not this time. Not with Eunho.

He was there, right /there/, when Jaeha drunkenly admitted some serious things. It was in Eunho's hands to actually be an adult and talk things through.
Why would he make Jaeha go through that shame? Or put him uncomfortable?
(I'm already hearing people telling me "but he orgasmed!" Well, shit, of course he did. It was a dildo and a vibrator. Constant touches against his prostate can cause that)

But I just ┗( T﹏T )┛

I have to insist they need to talk instead of having sex.
No matter how masochist Jaeha is, this is not okay.
And no matter how hurt Eunho is, "pushing him against a wall so he won't have a escape" is not okay.

I love the story. I really, really do.
But the smut is unnecessary.

Responses
    Cristina March 26, 2018 9:43 pm

    Think about Eunho's acumulated frustration... do you think he can be normal, i mean have a healthy normal behaviour?
    Eunho loved him so much so deeply waited and tried again and again and Jaeha accepted his love and interest even reciprocated it... But then out of the blue he just broke up and lost all connection..
    I am not saying any of them is in the right here... just that they are people they have complex thoughts and it's no surprise they just push the limits avoiding the real problem... Like most of us do...

    Madagascan Vanilla March 26, 2018 10:08 pm
    Think about Eunho's acumulated frustration... do you think he can be normal, i mean have a healthy normal behaviour? Eunho loved him so much so deeply waited and tried again and again and Jaeha accepted his lov... Cristina

    exactly, I agree 100%, wish I could like a reply

    Wayne March 26, 2018 10:23 pm
    Think about Eunho's acumulated frustration... do you think he can be normal, i mean have a healthy normal behaviour? Eunho loved him so much so deeply waited and tried again and again and Jaeha accepted his lov... Cristina

    I get y'all's people points, I really do, but I can't stop thinking (and siding up) to Jaeha.

    Jaeha had his trauma, too. Not only Eunho did.
    And maybe it was idiotic of him to trust that teacher in the first place, the one who I suppose was his first love?, but still, he loved, he trusted and at the end, he was tossed aside like trash.

    That's a scar that can be permanent, too.
    And the way he deals with it is 'caging himself up', or like the wife once said, 'You're the most important person to yourself' kinda thing. I don't blame Jaeha from protecting himself, not after what happened.

    He doesn't trust that easily... and again, like I have said in other posts of mine, I think people are forgetting his trauma.

    Put Jaeha's lack of trust, put his trauma + add the fact that Eunho wanted to seal the deal. . . of course he would close himself up again. Because, yes, he fears. He has doubts.

    I dunno, I spend an unholy amount of time studying characters, but this once, I'm in Jaeha's side xD

    Madagascan Vanilla March 26, 2018 10:55 pm
    I get y'all's people points, I really do, but I can't stop thinking (and siding up) to Jaeha. Jaeha had his trauma, too. Not only Eunho did. And maybe it was idiotic of him to trust that teacher in the first pl... Wayne

    Of course, but that doesn't mean Eunho can always take the hit and forgive him.
    The boy stood there for all that throughout the first season untill he finaly reach his limit, I guess.

    Sure, if he had pushed one more time, things may have worked back then, or not. But the way it all ended... they were at a point where Eunho though they're finaly over with all the pushing and I think he was just so exausted that when it happen, he just did nothing. I myself felt exausted just with that plot.

    I'm not siding with either of them, because they both have a lot of things to solve. So my point is that both of them have things to figured out, and we can't just take in consideration Jaeha's trauma 'cause at this point Eunho is kinda traumatized and hurt too, as you can see for the way he's been acting all season.

    Again, not siding with Eunho either, it's a really important factor what you're saying about Jaeha :)

    Meyu March 26, 2018 11:05 pm

    This is exactly what i thought, thanks for putting it into words ..

    Wayne March 26, 2018 11:25 pm
    Of course, but that doesn't mean Eunho can always take the hit and forgive him. The boy stood there for all that throughout the first season untill he finaly reach his limit, I guess.Sure, if he had pushed one ... Madagascan Vanilla

    I get ya, too! Dx
    I'm not discarding Eunho's trauma. . . but I do think he pushed a little too much.

    I stand my ground with Jaeha, though. I can't start to understand how Eunho is behaving.

    I mean, I get his hurt, I really get it... but he's been acting this way that makes me irk.
    He's been pushing Jaeha even more. Whether it is appearing out of the blue at the atelier (is that even how it's written xD), and demanding sex or making Jaeha go through certain situations that make it seem like he's uncomfortable.. I just can't.
    I understand that he might want to get his point across, but I can't condone the way he's doing it.

    I just... they need to talk. Not have sex. Not pulling the sadomasochist cards. Not pushing buttons that make the other snap. No. They need to talk. And it turns me nuts that they aren't. My frustrations has been through the roof these last episodes (alas, I'm a masochist because here I am ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭)

    bimblefrog March 27, 2018 6:21 am
    Think about Eunho's acumulated frustration... do you think he can be normal, i mean have a healthy normal behaviour? Eunho loved him so much so deeply waited and tried again and again and Jaeha accepted his lov... Cristina

    I understand Eunho's frustration but the way he's relieving himself of that inner anger is utterly baseless. I hope the character wakes up and ceases this behavior (from spoilers it seems like thankfully he does snap put of this shit). STOP EXCUSING SHIT BEHAVIOR JUST BECAUSE THE PERSON WAS HURT. There's this thing called SELF-CONTROL :-O !

    Madagascan Vanilla March 27, 2018 7:26 pm
    I get ya, too! Dx I'm not discarding Eunho's trauma. . . but I do think he pushed a little too much. I stand my ground with Jaeha, though. I can't start to understand how Eunho is behaving. I mean, I get his h... Wayne

    Yeah, of couse not, and I agree with that. There's just things that he's been doing that are not okay and are leaving Jaeha so unconfortable that it's unconfortable and painful to watch. They just really need to talk, that's key at this point.

    Both you and me, this pains me every time. I see 'new update' and it's like "oh shit, here we go again", ahaha. Thanks for replying (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ

    Madagascan Vanilla March 27, 2018 7:41 pm
    I understand Eunho's frustration but the way he's relieving himself of that inner anger is utterly baseless. I hope the character wakes up and ceases this behavior (from spoilers it seems like thankfully he doe... bimblefrog

    I wasn't excusing it, I was trying to make you see both points of you. It's obliviously not okay some of the things he's been doing, it's painful and unconfortable for anyone who's been reading this since the beginning and it's attached to the story.

    Eunho is frustrated and with frustation comes anger, I think he just wants to desperatly be with Jaeha and since he didn't know if and how to get back to the way they were, he's been acting like an idiot. Imagine what it's like thinking you had finally the full trust of someone you loved all your life, someone who never opens up, opening up to you and then it's just all gone and every time you look at them now, you must get so frustrated and angry...you know what I mean? 'Cause I myself feel so freaking frustrated with this.

    Again, I'm not on anyones side, I could talk about Jaeha just as much tbh, and that's why I kinda jumped on this comment when I saw someone taking a side. They both did wrong, the relationship is broken and they desperatly need to talk and stop this bullshit and that's that.

    bimblefrog March 27, 2018 8:23 pm
    I wasn't excusing it, I was trying to make you see both points of you. It's obliviously not okay some of the things he's been doing, it's painful and unconfortable for anyone who's been reading this since the b... Madagascan Vanilla

    I agree with you, thanks for the thoughtful reply