I always see this shit

Ikr? I personally in real lif find it hot to wake up by my boyfriend like that. If we have a good relationship. But I guess depends on peoples taste? Jajaja

Actually ,you will see nowdays people get crazy over rape in yaoi almost everywhere rather it is seme or uke.without understanding the yaoi and its trope itself people scream rape .without understanding the circumstances ,the hints that we get in manga that uke lowkey wants it and is not bothered by it .just like maya is not bothered .and in the name of opinions and criticism people lowkey also attack the people who like to read these kind of things like we are some devils.there was this manga where scantalatrs warned people about romantacising rape .but the whole comment section still got spammed by it is rape or no rape comment .the whole reason for which,the warning sign was;had no use .i don't care if that was rape or not .but precaution was better than cure you can see in that comment section obviously what people think.
I wish there will be this kind of sign in almost every manga that contain romantasize rape in yaoi .so only people who likes it can read it and who don't can not.so not one will be bothered by it.and we can actually discuss about the plot but not rape.no one actuallu talk about the plot people keep talking about the rape rape even if we have so much more going on.

Um, maya does this to nemu all the time and let’s not forget in the first chapter maya handcuffs nemu to a fence, blackmails him into head the rapes him. Then blackmails him into sex for awhile. In vol 6 maya even dealt with the fact he raped nemu after having an existential crisis after seeing another guy almost raped and hearing someone say how sad it would be to have your first time be rape. This chapter was refreshing bc it’s always maya climbing on nemu when he’s asleep or pushing him to indulge in some kink. Nemu has always been the no no type so the chapters showing him gaining agency over his sexuality and for once discovering his own sexual needs are awesome. If after hearing all that context you still think it’s rape then maya raped nemu approx 1,792 X’s vs Nemu’s 1. In that context Nemu’s gotten a bit of payback. Also fiction is different then real life and there’s a reason women (and some men) are drawn to non con and rape scenarios in fiction. Same reason there’s rape play. I don’t get why everyone is against slut shaming when they’re so quick to shme men and women who enjoy rape fantasies. Especially bc those reading it are identifying with the victim. There’s a lot of reasons women are into this. And one reason it’s so prevelant in Japanese manga is bc women (and in their eyes the uke is assuming a female role-it’s backwards af but the Japanese have some issues with female sexuality and homosexuality) aren’t supposed to act like they enjoy sex. They’re supposed to protest to retain modesty.The sexism, misogyny and anti lgtbq shit is a lot more problematic then rape/non con in manga written primarily for women. Rape fantasy where the women (or guy) are forced into sex or an avatar (the character in the book/movie/etc.) is a normal thing for women and when ppl start talking about how horrible it is that’s shaming them. Do some research. I can tell you a someone who has been raped several times including being gang raped that I don’t want to be raped ever again. But I have enjoyed rape play with a partner where he pretends to rape me and enjoy fiction that has non con rape. The so called yaoi rape or the old school harlequin rape. Realistic depictions of rape I don’t enjoy although they can be great for bringing drama and angst to a story but I def am not into it. Bc there’s a difference. Ones a woman’s Fantasy and ones a women’s nightmare. (Or mans). Sexuality is weird and intriguing and one persons kink doesn’t always work for another. Just like you wouldn’t read a hardcore S&M scenes and think “how disgusting that man is beating his partner. That’s a crime, if you enjoy it your sick!” Why would you be so judgmental for this kink. Especially when (and I’ll stress this again) it’s a normal thing for women to enjoy this for several reasons. There are many sex educators you can find online who talk about the why the how and how it’s normal and a woman (or man) shouldn’t feel guilty about it. And unfortunately a lot of ppl have t had the education I’ve had and can easily think their some kind of degenerate. Which sucks bc they arent and it’s sad if they think that way or are shamed into thinking that. And what makes it worse is more then a few, like myself have had our own issues being sexually molested and/or assaulted. My ex had a fantasy of being raped by a woman. He didn’t want it in real life but he enjoyed the fantasy. Sadly for him he felt like that was something to be ashamed of. As long a everyone is of age and it’s consentual I don’t give a fuck what your kink is.

Here’s a few resources if anyone wants to learn something. Also remember 99% of yaoi is written by women for women. Gay men usually are into bara but younger gay men sometimes read yaoi bc bara is to intimidating. If you have issues with rape scenarios stay far far away from bara

https://www.bustle.com/articles/106720-what-do-rape-fantasies-mean-the-psychology-behind-the-common-fantasy-explained

https://www.laurakkerr.com/2015/09/16/sexual-fantasies-of-rape/

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vice.com/amp/en_au/article/3k5gey/when-rape-survivors-have-rape-antasies
The sub headline reads:
It’s complicated but totally normal

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/201508/why-do-women-have-rape-fantasies

U fucking kidding me? In another story, a uke REALLY raped a seme and everybody was like 'omg, the uke is so hot' and they were also like 'u go boi! Show him how it's done!' and u saying that??

Actually its the other way around. Seen a lot of yaoi where when its seme, they got mad but if its uke who did it or someone else to uke, almost everyone ks fine with it.

Not all the time