That was actually a dick move..

my best friend told me to go get my girl and still to this day has not problem with the fact that we hardly see each other now

Damn my best friend or me would whoop each other's ass, if you hardly see each other i think the "best" in best friend will be gone

i think it might also be a difference in age seeing as how i am 36 and i have known my best friend since i was still in diapers

Yeah but your friend seems fine with it while sua totally looks like she’s not appreciating the way she’s being treated. That’s what make it problematic

i also am in my late 30's this is a shared account between father and daughter and honestly my best friend to this day has no problem with the fact that i left him for my wife because to him meeting my wife made me a better person so yes bro's before hoes does play some factor IF your friend can see the woman is BAD NEWS however in my case my wife SAVED MY LIFE literally if it was not for her and the 2.5 years i spent living in Japan i would not be alive today due to drug addiction and the life style i was living so my best friend sees it as a good thing however i have other friends who have not spoken to me in YEARS due to me choosing my wife over their friendship as they see it so i can understand hell in one case the friend a Woman has not spoken to me directly due to her being salty about me choosing my wife due to her wanting to hook up with me her words she was thirsty for me for many many years just to be beaten by a Japanese woman who i accidentally met via a messed up hacky sack launch in a park in Olympia Washington many many moons ago (23 years )

Yes but like i mentioned in my comments, your story and this one are completely different. The people who were salty for you leaving them were just friends and you best friend was totally okay with it, probably knowing your situation, also, you were having problems and the woman you met actually helped you through it. In this story the main characters who doesn’t seem to have any problems at all and even if she does the love interest doesn’t help in any of them, she just completely forgets about her best friend, she did not communicate with her at all she just thought about the new person she met without giving much thoughts to it. I understand that if they talked about it and her best friend said everything was fine it would be okay, but in this case she just totally don’t treat her the right way and forgets about her. I understand her feeling as I got forgotten and abandoned a lot in the past I can relate with her feeling and it’s one of the worst. Yes she met someone new, we all do, but there is no excuse to just leave or forget someone who is supposed to be important to you and have a special place in you heart (Unless the friendship is too toxic to keep on living). Leaving and abandoning/forgetting is two complete things. The difference between both need to be said and understood. You left your best friend because he was fine with it. She literally abandons her best friends and hang out with the new girl because she forgot about her which is not a good way to treat someone at all and we can see that Sua is not fine with the fact that her best friend is forgetting her to go hang out with the new transfere student. Anyways, that’s my point of view and I don’t think it might change anytime soon but yeah.