Why did he kidnap the friend?

That is a very very good question. I am utterly confused. I thought in the beginning that china had to used other people that where in the dream in order to take their place now I am not sure anymore

Its quite easy to get he fell in love(〃∀〃)ゞ

no no no that makes no sense at all like why on earth would he fall for him it defies all logic, not that this manhwa has any logic to begin with but still it cannot happen

I am not talking about the mc (black hair dude) but about the Red hair friend! He kidnap him, gave him iv and left him in his room. Why he did all that?

mm cause he wants to get the MC heart and make him love him and maybe rape him a little bit ╮(￣▽￣)╭ rape him for real and not in a dream. and yeas the dude is crazy so...yeas. he have his own crazy way to show his "love" to the annoying MC (≧∀≦)

He told him youre gonna learn to love me( °_ʖ °)

Guys i am talking about the Red hair friend, not the mc.

I am talking about this
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/a_man_like_you/uu/a_man_like_you-chapter-36/43/
Why did he do that?

Ya I understood you were taking about the friend, I don't get that either

Because he is a psychopath with sadistic tendencies? The only thing I can think of is that he has to see the person first before he can appear in dreams as the person. I mean, you can't look like me if you don't know how I look like right?

but the fist time Lu xuan take Donghyun place in the dreams, Donghyun was in Siwon's house (ch 34)... i'm so confused.

Oh and I was talking about the other red haired guy

So he gets in siwoon's house, kidnaps donghyun (? Red hair friend), takes him home, tears his clothes, writes something in chinese, gives him iv to continue get in the dreams and he was blindfolded all this time because he couldn't see donghyun... ? and if someone else did all these for the phycho, why didn't the phycho just visit the university once to see donghyun. Why these characters are making their lives so hard?!

The chinese guy don't gets in siwon's house and kidnaps donghyun. I think somehow the Chinese guy followed donghyun to his house and did those things. I don't know.

He did it to threaten them and show how far he is willing to go to get what he wants. Donghyon(?) had recalled a hazy memory of Lu just saying how it’d be fun to mess with Siwon by using a close friend of his.

You are quite right. But you are talking about the purpose and i am talking about the means. Anyway, maybe the mangaka hasn't complete that part yet and show us something else. Or at least i hope so.

I think we should all agree the Jinha friend is crazy, that's all it is ╮(￣▽￣)╭ I won't seek logic or a reason where there isn't any. he just crazy to me and do crazy shit to get what he wants or feel like doing at that moment.