You guys sure are hating the Uke for apparently being a hoe but what happened with the ex was in no way consensual. I know Yaoi may have desensitized some of us to it but when someone says “no” the first time it means no. It doesn’t matter if their body was “enjoying” it or if they started to go along with it out of fear and habit [which is what Siu did]. It was still clearly nonconsensual and the ex obviously still has power over Siu. Look at Siu’s expression when the ex left, that’s not the expression of someone who enjoyed what just happened to him. I don’t know how long he and the ex were together but it was clearly long enough for Siu to have serious difficulties refusing him. I mean I’m not saying you guys are victim blaming but you don’t seem to understand why Siu acts the way he does outside of him being a “slut” or “hoe.”
You guys sure are hating the Uke for apparently being a hoe but what happened with the ex was in no way consensual. I know Yaoi may have desensitized some of us to it but when someone says “no” the first time it means no. It doesn’t matter if their body was “enjoying” it or if they started to go along with it out of fear and habit [which is what Siu did]. It was still clearly nonconsensual and the ex obviously still has power over Siu.
Look at Siu’s expression when the ex left, that’s not the expression of someone who enjoyed what just happened to him. I don’t know how long he and the ex were together but it was clearly long enough for Siu to have serious difficulties refusing him.
I mean I’m not saying you guys are victim blaming but you don’t seem to understand why Siu acts the way he does outside of him being a “slut” or “hoe.”