PREACH IT! This needed to be said! Thank you
I really enjoy how complex all the character relationships are. Never been a fan of fluff and where characters discover a natural attraction for each other, though... This and Starry Sky are my all time favorites.
I actually mad about Siwon been abusive to Jinha for no good reason many times in this story from the start, blaming him many times for nothing, humiliate Jinha again and again for no reason even before the school thing happen.
and the second thing I"m mad at Siwon is that no matter how much you try to defend him, normal people will never go to a drink with someone that kidnap their best friend and blackmail their boyfriend. unless he have a mind of a baby, that not a common sense. it just stupid! ╮(￣▽￣)╭
what I think is interesting is: Jihna and Siwon were arguing, for a longer time now. Siwon got seperated by jihna through that and in my opinion wasn‘t able, to meet with him. then, while really longing for jihna inside, he get‘s the offer for information. in this moment he doesn‘t care that it‘s from the chinese guy, he just want‘s to know it. nobody looks how manipulative the chinese guy talked to him! I know, it is still super naive, but when you have something completely different on your mind, that‘s destroying you, who says you think about that first?
again, no metter how much he miss Jinha, he could go gossip about him with someone else. if he wanted to know something about the guy, he could go and ask him directly! and no matter how much desperate he was to gossip about Jinha life or know more about him, the guy a fucking kidnapper! it's like I won't go with a serial killer to a drink, just cause he know a few things about my ex boyfriend. it's just not a common sense, it's stupid beyond just been "naive". hell even naive people are not that stupid!
Siwon just have a mind of a baby, that the only explanation.
bro u need help
bro you need help! XD I"m sure of it.
Man, there’s some major black and white views in the comments. Relationships and what they call “love” is complex and often messy. No one is at fault for feeling the way they do about anything. If you’ve been brainwashed by romance dramas and Disney it’s easy to blame Siwon or the Chinese dude, but confused feelings, mixed feelings, or being unable to recognize feelings are very common realities in many relationships. Plus, some people, like Siwon, need more time to process things. There’s no fault there.
Lastly, love can exist apart from sex or sexual attraction. I know this manhau isn’t going in the asexual direction, but comments getting mad at Siwon for not immediately opening his legs for Jinha because Jinha is a good guy is ignorant and silly. Platonic love can come first, long before sexual attraction settles in. If you’re feeling pressured into a sexual relationship before you’re ready, is it really a surprise you’d be uncomfortable? Or how about being outed in your school when you didn’t want anyone to know you liked someone of the same sex? Would you not feel angry, hurt, and confused? I know it’s fiction, but a dose of reality never hurts. People can feel how they want about characters or the story overall, but keeping an open-mind allows you to take away more from a story and from life. Just saying.