Yes I know that's true, but what I was meaning was instead of just the one guy talking about it and trying to be the bottom both of them try at the same time. They don't have to go all the way right off the bat,but at least try before they go all the way. It's only fair that they both try instead of just the one trying. More then likely the one guys trying to be bottom now will end up being bottom and that's not fair to him. Yes it's his choice but doesn't mean it's right, when both of them are alpha's, both should see how it is before they go to far at first and then go from there... hopefully this make sense and clear it up of what I was meaning.

I say both alpha's should try being bottom not just the one. It's only fair right? :) Plus it makes it that much better having them switch roles. hehe