
maybe it's just how I perceived it, but Tamaki seems to love Fuji. But he had his whole life having it jammed down their throats about
Alpha and omega pairs", "Destiny", "Blah, blah, blah".
And as Fuji confessed and these two hooked up, he seemed to be leaning in his direction. Even the whole entire time the Alpha took him the first time, all he could think was "No. I don't want this. stop. why is my body reacting like this". His instincts did it, his own self, didn't.
And more than himself being hurt, hearing about the pair being broken, and the pain it caused the omega lady and her beta lover. I think he doesn't want to cause Fuji that kind of pain more than anything.
(even if you don't like it, you still have to immerse yourself in the rules of omegaverse, and how things are seen in their world.)

I understand what you are saying, but I do see the situation in a different light. In the situation of the parents, the mother made her choice to leave her husband for the alpha, and then proceed to break off the pair. Therefore I believe that if he thinks that being with Fuji will hurt him, it proves that he believes he will eventually leave him for an alpha and I then believe that he should tell Fuji no and go be with the alpha. He has choices and he is making selfish ones. I think if he has so many doubts he should set Fuji free, instead of dragging him along with his indecision.
That is what I believe, but I guess the rules of the omegaverse to me are that their sex drive is strong and some what painful, but that doesn't mean you can't fight it. In my opinion it is just a matter of self control. Alpha's that don't control themselves because of an omegas heat are rapist because they have the choice to attack, or get out of the situation, and choose to attack. I think that is not because they can't control themselves, but instead that society has told them that they don't have to and don't have the ability to. But in fact they do because humans pride ourselves on having higher intelligence than other species and self control is a part of that.
Of course I do not know is this is the case or not, however that is just how I see it. That is why I do not like the omega or the alpha (they both refuse to even attempt self-control or think about anyone but themselves) and think that they should be together and the beta should be with someone else.

for the into their world, I mean more the building blocks of life. no one would encourage a beta with an omega. then you have the troubles when you are in heat and fight that. same as alphas have to resist. then you have soul bonds that you cant deny. then the whole trouble of if you are already bitten, and complications if it's not with someone you love. It's the, would you be confident as that omega, that not even your fated mate would tempt you? Or no accidental rapes will occur in the future if you pick a beta? Because being with an alpha stops that threat, and normally calms their heat to some extent.
We are watching the common fight in his head of, he is in love with Fuji, but as an omega with his fated mate around, he feels like he owes it to see what might be there.
Fuji loves him, and he would never walk away with a half assed answer. Not when he sees the struggle the man he loves is dealing with. Even Fuji up until a few chapters ago was prepared to let him go to an alpha, because the natural thinking of alpha and omega.
(I feel like everyone is In too much of a hurry to get to the end. i'm enjoying the struggle and curious to see if he will go to Fuji. yes, i'm rooting for them. their love is fucking obvious from the day they met. )

And that is what makes me so sad. All of those fears because omegas are supposed to be with alphas, even if they don't love them. That there are twice as many alphas as there are omegas statistically, but sill omegas are supposed to only be with alphas. And to say that he loves Fuji I understand, but it's not strong enough. Because of the way this society is, his fears are valid and understandable, who wouldn't want security and for their heat to be reduced? That's all omegas want and I understand that, and so I think he should just be with his "fated mate" because he could never love Fuji enough. For an omega and a beta to be together in this society, their love has to be stronger than any "destiny" that could come walking around the corner, and they don't have that. He doesn't love him like that, and so they shouldn't be together because of these doubts. He doesn't love him enough for everything else to not matter. What I want to see is a love where yes, this will be hard, our love will face adversity at every turn, we will struggle and fight and suffer... but its ok. Its ok because I love you and you love me and we will get through this together. That's what I wanted to see, and that's why I don't want them together. He couldn't feel that way because he doesn't love him, not like he would need to love him in this world.
I really do appreciate seeing this from your point of view as well. I completely understand wanting to ride the ride and see where this goes. To watch them grow and develop as a couple is completely valid...but this ride has become a bit painful for my heart. ╥﹏╥ Watching the "tear jerking backstory of our little alpha" has just made me want more for Fuji to find someone else, because this omega is not built for this. He worked so hard in his life, pretending to be an alpha to prove society wrong about omegas, working hard in school and raising in his courpate career! It was amazing and I was so proud of him. It was building to be the best omegaverse story I ever read. And it all came crumbling down because his "destiny" appeared. I couldn't understand why someone who worked so hard wouldn't want to continue to make his own destiny, to find real love. Sorry this became so long, but I was really happy to have this conversation!

I appreciate seeing both sides too. and an actual level headed discussion.
I agree, it takes a lot. a lot of drive. and their world is very sad logic.
I feel bad, because you know, he was so calm around Fuji. and it wasn't just because he was a beta. it was that he trusts him. I love all the flashback moments. And his heat made him think "I don't care who". and the second Fuji hugged him, he took it right back. And calmed down. and that his collar had the password, of his birthday, after Fuji bought it for him. that one gets me right in the fucking heart. and the chapter where they first had sex, you can tell he actually wanted to.
And it equally breaks my heart, that both of them were prepared to let go at any time his fated alpha came in. But I love that the second Fuji saw his true colors, just walked back in like "Forfeit? Bitch, he will be mine".
I'm hoping with another ten/twenty chapters, we'll see him walk away from Alpha boy and make his way to Fuji. If he can get himself to walk away from his mate, I think that will serve as his proof.
(remind me if i'm wrong, isn't the omegas mother also in a hospital?)

I completely agree. Some people get so passionate and don't listen to others and the conversations just become... uncomfortable. So thank you for sharing your thoughts, and thank you even more for listening!!
I think the author did a really good job because of debates like these only happen with good stories. I won't lie the collar and the high school memories, they all made me root for them, with my heart and soul I wanted them to love each other, I wanted real love. Not some hormonal imbalance that ruins the definition of true romance. This story really makes me feel some type of way about all those "destined love alpha-omega" stories that I've read up until this point. I mean he had lived his life so well!! So not the "typical omega". And the alpha is such a bad man!! He is so cruel and such a jackass!! UGHH OUR BETA IS SUCH AN AWESOME MAN!! I won't lie, part of what makes the beta so amazing is the fact that when he found out that the omegas "destined-mate" was a jackass he decided he would fight for him. Even though he is only a beta and the other an alpha. I hold so much respect for that. If only then and there the omega choose Fuji. If when he confessed our omega he made the choice to be with him, omg I would have swooned so hard!!
(And no I do not recall the omegas mother being in the hospital.)

I think they did an amazing job too. I agree, Fuji being all alpha to the alpha had me swooning. We can agree we all love him and think the seme is a jackass. I pulled a Fuji, thinking "maybe the alpha isn't so bad", saw his true colors and was like "You, sir. bag of dicks, cannot have my marshmallow". I also love that when they were kids and he said he was glad he was a Beta, Fuji agreed and started to like himself. like, why you two like to play with my heart?
I think I am still scarred from Romantic Joutou. Fuck, I got so scared they were going to go the same route at one point. like, anything but that.
(I would FUCKING love to see the alpha's face if he ever learned the pass code is Fuji's birthday.hahaha, i'm evil)
I would really and truly love for this to be a story where the alpha and omega "destined loved" gets proven to be false and the beta and omega get together and prove that LOVE is not something as simple as "instinct"!!
HOWEVER... That emotion has changed as I have continued to dislike the omega more and more. I LOVE THE BETA HE IS THE FREAKING BEST!! And therefore he deserves better than this omega. This omega is indecisive and weak willed. I know that an omegas "nature" is strong, BUT I cannot find it in myself to defend him because I do not see any part of him that has even tried to go against his "nature" (I am NOT saying that that is easy, but it is possible and he could at least TRY). He hasn't tried to deny the alpha or even decide what he wants. He just let what is "instinct" take over let someone else decide his fate. Therefore I think that he should continue to let what others say run his life and be miserable! And the beta can find someone else, someone better, and someone with their own free will who can make a decision for themselves.