I went through the same thing which is probably why im more sympathetic, yes dg knew what he was getting into but you can't control your heart from wanting more
I agree... after all, wanting to be loved and accepted is part of human nature. Even if it doesn't always work out that way. You can't control who you fall for or wanting to be happy.
For sure you can’t control who you fall for but you could also stop those feelings from bit by bit if you are aware that there would be no end game, which doesn’t apply for DG because so far he thinks that Alex is starting to like him now (which also could be Alex’s fault for giving him mixed signals or DG is simply misunderstanding Alex’s action). But yeah idk if I made sense but simply put, you could do things such as take a short break from seeing that person and try really hard to not think about that person to stop harboring feelings.
but you cant just abruptly stop feelings either, its not that simple
what? I never said that lol. Idk if you read my last comment at all but I literally said in the first sentence that “you could stop those feelings BIT BY BIT” obviously it’s just plain impossible to abruptly stop feelings for someone else unless you fall in love at first sight with another person which I’m assuming would have to be the person of your dreams lmao
whsh my bad i didn't expand then comment
Well not to be a bitch but if DG becomes all depressed when they stop fucking I can’t really feel bad because he knew what he was going into and Alex himself told him that it was purely a relationship about sex. It would be DG’s fault for not being able to separate something physical from something emotional. I’m saying this bc I went through the same thing and I felt so stupid for expecting some kind of a better relationship (?) out of it and thought that maybe he would like me enough to go out with but nope he just left while I was depressed lol