Responses
Um so you're saying that forgiveness depends on what the perpetrator has or has not done to to keep inside the bounds of forgiveness? Not what the victim feels? Wow, I think that's exactly the same kind of nasty sh!t abusers like the ones in these two manga would say. Saying the uke should always be passive then wondering why they're always written as passive is a twisted kind of 'logic' that I will never get.

The seme makes a fool of him, treats him like crap and cheats but at the end the dumb uke forgives him... wait! I have seen this plot before!
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hina_wa_mitsuiro_no_koi_ni_torawareru/