and??
What?
Even if he is "easy", does that mean he doesn't deserve a good relationship? I'm sorry, but your comment borders on slut-shaming, and I find that much more reprehensible than being "easy".
I never said he doesn't deserve a good relationship.. I was just mentioning that I think that makes him look easy. I never said there was anything bad about it, I just felt like he should have got to known the man first before giving himself to him.
I'm sorry if I came across harshly, but that kind of stuff really raises my hackles. There are numerous different variables that determine the timing for sex between two people. There are one-night stands, love-at-first-sight, and sometimes just intense conversations that give two people the feeling of having known each other longer than they actually have. I've slept with people after having just met them, and I've also gone years between sexual encounters. That would make me both easy and difficult to get into bed. You can't judge a person entirely based on one circumstance or one stage of their life. I was probably harsher than I needed to be, but I also wanted to express my reasoning for why statements like that one bother me so much. "Being easy" isn't something anyone should have to apologize to someone else for; it's their life and decision to make.
It's fine, everyone's got their different views on things. Sorry if I seemed rude.
I think it depends on how much value you put on sex.
you can't write your harmless thoughts without some people jumping on your throat.. ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
having sex so early when meeting each other makes him seem easy