What kind of stupid logic is that? "She isn't the only one" lmao. You sound childish
She's the one being childish. There are plenty of people who have it hard like her, but it's not like they go to the hospital just to tell the people they love to die faster. That's some messed up stuff.
You really can't judge if you've never been in a situation like her
You don't know what kinda situations I've been in before. Just because I've never known anyone in a coma doesn't mean I've never known people that have been in life threatening situations that have ended up in the hospital fighting for their lives. In fact just recently, one of my family members for attacked by a dog and nearly died. He lost an eye and we ended up paying a huge hospital bill, but it's not like I wanted him to die because of the strain it put on us.
You really don't get it. Emotional and financial stress on LONG term patients' family is huge, especially for ppl that aren't rich. The key word is long term. You're too emotional about this and judge her rashly but if you were to think about the actual strugless the family has to go trough, you wouldn't be so harsh. If you were to actually know how many of these families wish it would just end (just like her), you would be surprised. This isn't uncommon and this isn't just black and white. So you really need think a little bit before cursing someone out. And btw. wanting to be happy isn't selfish.
My family is borderline penniless most of the time cause we're poor. Don't talk to me like I'm wrong cause I'm not. She can be frustrated and unhappy all she wants, but wishing for her dad to die isn't right. Just because he's in a coma doesn't mean he isn't struggling just as much as she is. I don't care if her financial situation is difficult. If it was so hard then she should tell her mom to stop being a baby about it and help pay the bills. She's just making the situation even worse by wanting him to die faster. And in any case if he isn't gonna wake up from the come, why keep him in the hospital at all, why not just let him die?????? Don't talk to me like people who struggle have any right to do and say what they want JUST because they're struggling. She needs to do what needs to be done and when it's all over she's gonna be extra guilty when he does die cause she's gonna wish that he hadnt. Wanting him to die isn't gonna change anything anyway so why say it all? Why out more guilt and strain on yourself at all?? You can try to make me sympathize with her selfishness, but I wont, cause she's just taking her frustrations out on the wrong person and it's stupid for her to do so.
I felt something was off from the beginning, but I really wasn't concerned about it till now.... She needs to buck up and keep it going. She isn't the only who suffers like this when family ends up in the hospital.