
Hear, Hear... I have an ex that the poor guy besides of complining for my sex drive,also behaves like a blind mice. Can´t find the G point even after i gave him a manual i found about it...**sigh** And then he ask we what am i build of, dunno the other women, but i think i have the basics of a woman tho...

He probably didn't want to learn. Guys think sex is only for their pleasure and they have some weird beliefs like "women don't cum" or "women cum just by me sticking it into her vagina". False! Only 30% of the world's women population can orgasm from penetration alone. The other 60% NEEDS clitoral stimulation to orgasm.
But women also need to study their own anatomy. Like I found out recently that squirting is a real thing and that I am capable to doing it quite frequently when I masturbate but when I have sex with guys, they're so inattentive that I don't even cum at all sometimes.

I totally agree with the last assertion. As in everthing in life you have to know before demand something, for example regarding the squirting stuff. I don´t know how is for other women but if i don´t come wet i´ll kep pushing, cause equiality and all that jazz. Even if i don´t usually engage in sexual encouners unless there´s commitement. I do consider myself a very sexual person. But in order to demand you must know, cause you can´t demand if you don´t know what t demand.
Regarding my ex it was more of a demand for submission and i don´t have a sngle submissiv hair in my head. I can be if i choose to, but more in play that in actual life style. So it ended, it took a while but at the end i stuck out my head of my ass and gave him the boot.

Oh gosh! Don't get me started on subs and doms. So many guys out there thinking they're doms and that women can only be subs. They're not even into the lifestyle. They just think it's macho to be a dom. It's borderline abusive to coerce someone into dom/sub play when you're uneducated about what it is.

EXACTLY!!!! Where have you been all my life?? But them or specifically him doesn´t understand it that way. After 0 shades everyone thinks that can get into that lifestyle, which couldn´t be more incorrect. The final straw was something closely related to that, and of course i said no, he asked again i said no. He kept pushing and my answer was the same. Finally he got some sense and asked me if i trusted him, for which the answer still is NO.
And... trust is the most important thing while engaging into something like that.It´s something that could potencially hurt you if the person doesn´t have an inkyling of what he´s doing. And i don´t consider that person capable of any kind of delicacy or control or kindness in a situation like that. Being so cavemanish as he is...

I have a coworker who is in the BDSM culture and sometimes I think she doesn't really understand what she got herself into. She's a sub and she wears her collar around her wrist at work and then wears it properly when she's off work. But sometimes, the things she says about her Sir is a bit alarming.
I once worked for a haunted house as a scare actor and she wanted to get in on that. But then when I offered to get her an audition, she suddenly said "you see, the problem is Sir wouldn't be happy about that. You say sometimes you get hit by the guests. And no one is allowed to hit me except for Sir. He will have a problem with that."
I'm not in the culture mostly because I'm the solitary kind and I also don't trust people like that. But since I do have interest, I've done some research. I'm probably a dom. But sometimes I like to be a submissive in bed.
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kuro_koi/uu/kuro_koi-chapter-4/34/
Yoooo I'm surprised you only had the one kid Shirase-san, if you had sex like that with three different wives. Must go through a ton of durable condoms.