when i was younger i used to think cheating ment a relationship had to end but i dont see it like that anymore :S, it can be worked over, life is not so black and white, people do make mistakes and also there is such a thing as polyamory so ... over all i think this had a really mature approach to relationships and no so pink and idealized as other fanfics
me too, i wanted a break up.
I didn't mind the fact that he was sleeping with that smexy ass senpai, i am so disgusted though that he did it behind his boyfriends back. If it was an open relationship, i wouldn't feel angry at all. but damn man, i want that sweet seme to find someone else. Arata didn't deserve for that to happen to him, to feel like shit T^T to be betrayed, multiple times! omg it kills me to think how Arata must feel.
I cant be angry at that smexy senpai either, because he stopped the second he knew the uke was in a relationship. such a good smexy man like him isn;t to blame.
All the blame is on the uke. The seme should have ended it with the uke, but arrrhg we know he loves the uke too much. But that relationship isn't going to be okay for a while, the uke needs to earn the semes trust and respect again.
but i don't want the seme to be in a relationship where he has doubts about his lover, thats so effing draining! So not healthy for his well-being at all. poor seme, why you gotta be so sweet like that?!?!
gaaaah srsly, i can't! i want to direct this hatred, disgust, disappointment somewhere1!!!
Polyamory has nothing to do with cheating.
xD sorry i meant that if someone cheats once, it may be really be a mistake, but if happens more maybe they cant be in a monogamus relationship and should be polyamorous ( i know this ist not polyamory because he lied about it, so its cheating)
Yes agreeed. Use seems like the type of person who would suit an open relationship. Have a primary lover, and several other partners for pleasure, or even leisure etc.
Agreed, polyamory is not cheating. It’s probably one of the more complete forms of self love. You’re being true to your desires and to who you really are, not feeling limited or restricted. Of course it’s not for everyone, but northern is the standard idea of a relationship is.
Sorry, but once a cheater, always a cheater. This is not a happy ending, it is a happy for now. I think I would have preferred a good break up than a lame reconciliation.