Wow. This is a big thing. Not to be xenophobic or anything, but I feel like, considering your vague location, you shouldn’t speak about your sexuality... Just for your safety. Do you have any idea what your family thinks about lesbians, or homosexuality? Maybe just decline the marriage, and tell them you want to focus on something else.
I did everything tell me an excuse that I didn't use it
They keep telling me the same answer ” marriage wouldn't stop you from doing anything you will live so happy he's a fine man we can't promise you that this chance would come again for you”
And my family think that marriage between gays people is like you marry your own mother
To be honest, if they knew about me being lesbians I can imagine how many ways they can kill me with it
hi! i have a friend who experienced the same thing. and yep this friend of mine is already married, it was arranged by her parents. and she's pretty much regretting it. if you don't like it, then please do everything to stop it from happening. convince your parents (you don't have to come out bc it just might backfire bc some parents aren't very open about it and they might really just push you into the marriage harder). talk to your sister and enlighten her. i'm sure it's not easy but you should give it a shot. i wish you luck!
Thanks about ”enlighten her”
my sister is a religious woman and it's impossible for me
She told me once how gays people when they marrying each other there's no different from marrying your own mother
I can get a result from talking with a wall more than when I talk with her
ayy like from the mideast too. y'know, i think heavy topics like this shouldn't be discussed on here. you're better off going to reddit or something, you'll find more help there
i am*
I didn't want to discuss this as much as I wanted to tell someone else but I can't trust anyone I know and it's raging inside me like a storm
I'm from middle east too
people sometimes think changing our parents mind is easy thing but you know being girls in our countary is hell If she was a boy It could be much easier to convince her parents (︶︿︶)
Girls can bring the shame to all her family from doing anything
I realized that I don't have any friends to help me out so I want to tell you about my problem
Next weekend I have an engagement party with a man I don't know and it's would be the first time I see him
My family want me to marry him
And I can't tell them that I'm lesbian
And my big sister is blackmailing me about my sexuality
Yah you can guess that I'm from the middle east