EXACTLY ! that's why it's pissing me off, like it wasn't even something worth breaking up for, they ended it so easily and it's so ridiculous and unreal esp after they went through the breaking up and making up process before so you'd think they've learned how to appreciate each other more and then this.. four ***** years *sigh*
I don't find the way they split up stupid at all. Many couples that can communicate with each other, split up when there is a long distance between them without seeing the end of the tunnel. he said one year and it became four. it could be all their lives. When you have different priorities it is very difficult to maintain a healthy relationship. Going back and forth korea-usa you need a lot of money or time. just my opinion though. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I fully agree. If they just talked about how they wanted their futures to go, in a calm subtle kind of way, they could have worked this all out and never had to break up the last time. The first time, that was just dumb. Seriously, all he had to do was ask about Mari and it would have been "Oh she's my sister" The end, no fighting. No thinking about the other one cheating. I could go on about this topic all day, but in the end it just results in, they need to have a real conversation for once in their lives, or neither one of them will ever be in a healthy relationship.
My main point is, they never even tried. They go straight towards breaking up every time they have an issue. Which would be limited if they just had a conversation about their relationship. Whether it's the whole cheating thing, or the moving away thing, they refuse to sit down and have a conversation about what they think is right for their relationship. Like I said before, these are two adults. Not teenagers, who act like children. They need to learn to talk things out. And they broke up before it became one year. If they had a conversation like a couple, it wouldn't have been a surprise. Because they both would have known the situation. Yes, they had different priorities, but as I've said before, if they talked about it like adults, they would have found means to find a way to make it all work. People have long distance relationships all the time. I know someone who lives in Canada who is dating someone from England and they see one another as often as they can. But with things such as Skype, facetime ect... it makes things easier. As for the money thing, I think Sihoon has no issue in that department. To make a couple of trips a year, or to have his boyfriend flown in a couple of times a year. To be honest, I don't think that would be too much of an issue. If normal couples can do it just to shoot youtube videos, I think he would be able to as well. I respect your opinion, as you have respected mine. I'm not a judgmental person. But I have a big mouth when it comes to my rants lmao sorry.
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Ya know, this couple breaks up over the stupidest things. If they just managed to have a conversation... A REAL CONVERSATION they could have made this work long distance. They didn't have to break all the other times that they broke up, if they just learned to talk to each other. These are two adults who haven't learned the art of communication. I'm sure there would have been time within those four years for them to visit one another, and they would have pulled through just fine. But nnooooooo, they have to not talk things through and find ways to make things work and just break up. People who are mute have better conversations than these two. I love these two, I really do. But... damn are they two really dumb people. Okay, rant over lmao.