I feel the same. i would not forgive him for hiding it
he was only doing but the mother told him to do and that was to take care of him and not to let him know about her sickness so why are you mad at him for
Just because his mother and him thought it was good, does not mean that it is.
It is true that Marry would have a hard time, but he would at least has the time to corp with the situation and has time to say his goodbyes. But now, no matter what he said, she would never be able hear or respond respond.
They way they let things happened is worse because without knowing anything, suddenly you were shoved to the fact you're mother was no longer exit. She was dead. No, what even worst was the fact they didn't even tell him that she had passed away. Terrible, just terrible. I would be so freaking piss if i were him.
True true..but your making it sound like it was ALL on sohoo..the mother was at fault too..it was both their fault..but sohoo is still alive so he will get the full blame but still..it wasn't ALL him
It's both their fault. Still, no matter what anyone tell you what to do, it's you who go through with it. There's no excuse on that.
For someone who knows Marry so well, he doesn't seemed to know him well enough to know that his action would hurt Mary more. If he truly put Marry's feelings first, he should not go through with it.
PS. His mother asked to see him before the day she died. That should mean she wanted him to know now.
I understand it wasn't good that Sohoo din't tell Merry but the blame shouldn't all go to Sohoo... too harsh.
Merry knew his mom was sick but not how bad her condition was.
Sohoo respected Merry's mom request not to tell him, so he kept it all to himself until Merry's mom was ready to meet him again.
They were about to meet but the time just stopped very suddenly.
Sohoo action frustrated me so much. I hate charters like him, just my personal preference.
He couldn't see something that's so freaking clear. How the hell did he not know the shock Marry would face? It may be true he was not the only one to blame, but he is still to blamed.
Why did he think the hospital called him in the middle of the night? They only do that when the conditional was really critical. Yet, "we will head out first thing in the morning?" Really? That's not how things should be done.
Imagine if the one in the hospital was Marry, would he wait until morning? As important a person Marry was to him, his mother was that important to Marry. If he would pause for a second and put himself in Marry's shoes, unless he's brain dead, it's clear as day.
And no, don't say that he didn't expect her to die so soon. He know so damn well she was going die! Especially her. She could die at anymore moment.
It is true that he cared about Marry, but unconsciously, he actually cared more about himself. He didn't want to SEE Marry heartbroken because Sohoo then WOULD FEEL MISERABLE for not being able to do anything. He may had thought he tried to delay Marry from the heartache, but nah, he just didn't want his heart to ache facing the actual heartbroken Marry.
To some of you, I may be too harsh, but nothing's going to change my mind. If it were a situation that cannot be help, i would understand, but he CHOOSE not to tell, CHOOSE to wait, CHOOSE to hide the body from Marry. To me, it is Sohoo who is afraid to face reality.
In real life, if anyone did what Sohoo did to me, A part of me would never be able to forgive them for roping my chance at seeing my loved one last moment, maybe for the rest of my life. Who the hell are they to decide what's best for me? They are only human, a creature that often make stupid mistake.
Sohoo is to blame for his actions, no one else.
Yes you are right and I get what your feeling..i felt this about raising a bat..urrghh I literally cried in frustration at the uke in that one..sohoo is probably afraid to face reality..which is why he didn't think the mom was going to die right at that particular time..he was delaying the inevitable..cos he didn't want to face it..weak??..absolutely..relatable??..absolutely..him and the mom both treat merry as a little kid with important things..hypocritical in sohoos part coz he don't treat him like a kid in the bedroom..cough cough..which is unfair to merry of course and sohoo is about to face the consequences of it..but sohoo himself though acts like a dependable leader is actually very mentally unstable..his emotional and physical state depend on merrys..that is not healthy..which is why he is in this position now..was he wrong..yes..but I can't hate him..I just find him so pitiful..guilt over merrys dad..his psycho mom..his weak willed dad..led him to get emotionally detached and merry 'saved' him from that..and now in his own way twisted way is trying to now protect that which saved him.
I read the raws and it looked like merry forgave him..birds eye view only tho..so idk..it just looks it..which is not what I was hoping for coz Merry needs to slap some sense into sohoo and show him he is not a kid animor..but the story is not done yet so I hope for the best for these two lost souls.
I don't hate him either, I just hate his actions. I hate it when characters let a drama that could easily be prevent become something big. I got what the author is aiming for, dramatic story, but i don't see the necessity in it. If I were the author, those non sense behavior would not happen. （￣へ￣）
As for raising bat, I feel the same way as you. I had stopped somewhere in the middle and had yet to continue.
It's so stupid. He could had all the time to spend with the mother, but know, Mary was not even even told that his mother was sick. And now that she died, Marry should be the first person to be informed, but the hell,. Hiding the truth is the most idiotic I could think of.
How is he planing to tell Marry, "Hey your mother is dead, but because I love you so much I won't even let you the chance to say see her, say goodbye before she died, and hide the body".
I would be so pissed if I were him. It is mother for crying out loud! Why the hell was he left out of everything!