I would like your comment 10 times if I could. I know exactly how you feel, youre not alone and my reaction would pretty much be the same cause Im a "little" (maybe a lot) reactive. I dont attack anyone ever but whenever someone dares do attack me they better be ready, that auntie would never dare to speak to me again she would just hate me for ever and cross the street at the sight of me
here is what I did, I didnt go to my own brother's wedding, cause i didnt want to meet all those "nice aunties", I love my brother but even so I didnt go. After that Im pretty sure they badmouthed me for days, they must do it even now but you know what?? I was never invited to anything again ever, finally free from them for good. And my brother still loves me the same way, no hard feelings. Its been years since I talked/saw any of those people, I feel blessed
I’m glad that you have an understanding brother and congratulations on getting rid of those garbage people!!!
I’m a bisexual (leaning towards both genders equally although a bit more towards women) and while reading this chapter I was again reminded about the reason why I might probably never ever come out to my parents. I live in a conservative society surrounded with the same type of ‘gossiping aunts’ who have to poke their nose in everyone’s business. The people around me all act highly educated and sophisticated but in reality all their education and sophistication is nothing more than just a pile of garbage. These people will judge you on the basis of which college you attend, your salary, wether you’re married or not (homosexuality isn’t even a thing for these motherfuckers) they would even judge you on the basis of your partner’s salary. But not even once would these insolent crackheads ask you about your happiness.
Yuyang is a fucking god for walking away from the dinner calmly, because if it was me then I would have had already flipped the table and cursed in all the languages known to man. And if my mother ever took me to a fucking doctor because of my sexuality then I would have my own self left the house (which I do plan to do in the future in case my parents don’t accept me).