Hi, I had the same situation as you but in my situation, I realized that, yes we all changed, but I had played a part where I had the chance to bridge the gap between us but I didn't do anything at all. That is why I'm trying my best to stay connected with my remaining friends.
We do not meet a lot, hekc we don't meet every few years but since we kept exchanging message every few weeks or months, we kept our bond even without meeting. We also accepted that we had things we won't know about each other because we were not together as often as before, but we're trying to know the important details of our lives.
Did I relay it correctly?
Yeah. I understand what you mean. I am currently in that phase where due to physical distances we talk less often but whenever we do talk it seems out of a sense of duty sort of a thing. I treasure our friendship a lot and I care deeply for them so there is this pang of worry that we are drifting apart but I don't know if it alright to try to keep us together. What if we were meant to be passing relations in their lives?
Hm. For me, I have a lot of acquaintances with very few friends. You may have someone who you are close with while you are together but when you part, your relationship also drifts apart and that is why you will be very lucky to meet someone who will be your friend even though you do not meet often and this happens because of their personality.
I must say that my few friends has the same personality as me where even though they didn't often message me, i am very happy when they do but I don't mind if they don't or won't think about much of it.
I really don't know what to say about the relationship of you two but I can say is that there are times where communication and connection are two different things. You may communicate but you do not connect.
I hope I can relay it to you as clear as I can. As I was always saying I'm sorry but english is not my first language (〜￣△￣)〜
You were perfectly clear with what you wanted to say. Thanks for the reply. It made me think about it in a different way
Well. I hope both your situation gets beter you may message me anytime if you want to talk about it. I'll do my best to listen (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ goodluck!
The friendship part was actually quite realistic and beautiful in its depiction. If not for the promise of that, and the reasonable pay-off, I would have ditched this minefield of problematic and creepy perversions the moment the story gets to talking about the "why" behind that one guy being into older dudes, because the BL part of it just keeps getting ickier. I was just madly flipping through the pages trying to skip all the BL pages, only stopping on panels that were about nothing but the dynamics between the three friends. Comments kept gushing about the adorable friendship and didn't do enough to warn me that I was gonna get blindsided into reading Freud's wet dream.
I had two friends who I thought as my best friend. We fight but eventually we made up. I thought we can keep this relationship until we're old. But then I learned that it just impossible. We grow up and change. We have our own problems to deal with. Our meetings gradually become less and less. Our talks become bland and just as an act of courtesy. The feeling is gone. I do feel sad, but I don't regret it. Maybe we are not meant to be best friend forever. Maybe this is the best for me. But still, I'm feeling thankful that I had nice friends back in my school years.
That's why I found this story rather absurd, but at the same time, I feel happy that the three of them could stay as a best friend in the end. (≧∀≦)