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I hope not many of us are facing what YuYang experiences, whether it's a terrible fight with a parent (I can't get over YuYang's dad slapping himΣ( ￣□￣||)) during a family get-together, or having no one to support you when you struggled alone... :/ I can't comprehend those who don't value supporting their loved ones to be happy, but instead, degrade them at the expense of their mental health.

This actually happens to me a lot I’d be at family gatherings and they would start talking about how such a HUGE GIFT kids are and how I should start to think about my future and I’d find the right man to marry it honestly hurts a lot mainly when’s I had my ex over at times it really cuts deep

some people shouldn't be parents

i really hope your family understands you one day and i wish you the best *muscle emoji*

I agree with you. So many folks in this generation are suffering mentally, for example. The people I've met at least, suffer from the expectations or toxicity that the parents brought from their time (e.g. war) or certain aspects of the culture that don't benefit the children :/ People aren't always open-minded to reevaluate what they're used to and see what makes everyone happy.

If your family talks about you finding a husband and having children together... Having biological children with your spouse isn't the only way to have children LOL. I'm not sure if your family thinks this way, but I do find it odd when people just don't advocate adoption, for example, because they're not related to you. :/ Parents and children could have solid relationships through bonding, not from a blood connection alone.

I hope you are doing okay. I don't know how you and your ex are now, but I have faith that you'll be fine :) Take your time doing whatever you need and what is best for you. Kids or not, you're fully capable of being happy. <3