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So you want him to overcome his fear by throwing him into the very thing he fears? That makes no sense. Ktbn.
I don't quite get what you understood from my comment..
He was saying that if Yeonduck has been traumatise to the point of having nightmare and being wary of Skyler is would be a very bad idea for them to start dating right now before having completely figured out their problems. It would be the root of a futur very bad break-up.
that acutally how you conquers fear - YOU FACE THEM! not hiding and ranning away from them.
Agreed. This is just delaying the crux of the problem, not making anything better. What would be resolved if he doesn't even speak to skyler?
I agree with this completely. Obviously, Yeondeok's behavior towards Skyler is understandable, but he has to speak up and let Skyler know why he is hesitant to be in a relationship with him. He has to let his fears be known to Skyler, it might hurt Skyler to know how negatively he has affected Yeondeok but it's necessary for their relationship to fully move forward towards a healthier path. I think right now the only thing Skyler is taking away from Yeondeok's behavior is that Yeondeok may not have feelings for him, which is not the core issue of Yeondeok's behavior towards him. Communication is vastly important in any relationship and right now it's still not present in theirs, particularly from Yeondeok's side which is a huge problem. This is how those misunderstanding started in their relationship in the first place. They have to talk about it, it maybe be painful but they do.
If your nightmare has skyler being cold and apathetic to you, it means that that is your worst fear. You never want skyler to be cold to you, so put all of us readers out of our misery and go out with skyler immediately! He has repented a lot..