Preach it girl!
I agree with your comment but I think it's too superficial, Skylar isn't using it as an excuse and his family situation wasn't even the big factor in why he was acting like an asshole. The thing is, him pushing yeonduk around is because, to a degree, if he doesn't chase after him then yeonduk would proceed with ignoring the situation and forget about it rather than "forgive" or "never forgive" Skylar. So far, I genuinely don't know how he can trust Skylar again, but I don't think your comment justifies the situation enough.
^ this
i wasn't trynig to justify the situation, i think you totally misubderstood, i was talking about the comments i've read and i was saying that skyler doesn't have to suffer to be forgiven by yeonduk because his pain has nothing to do with what happened with yeonduk, he is the only one who can or not forgive skyler, i wasn't trying to justify skyler, absolutely, in fact i think he can't be justified, maybe we're sayng the same thing bu with different words
and i think it's better for yeonduk to forget and move on because what happened whit skyler gave him a deep scar (?? i don't if it's correct this sentece) or at least he need time to accept that it's all in the past and that skyler is changed, without having skyler around because, how we saw in one of the last chapteds, he still have nightmares about skyler and the other guy, but this is a bl so obviusly the seme is pushy and things like that
When I say justify, I meant that you're not including all of the factors and overly simplifying it. Thank you for the better explanation but the last part of what you said bothers me. Just because it's tagged "BL" doesn't mean it follows the same stereotype. What I was trying to say is that, give Skylar some credit (for the lack of a better word, I used credit but you can replace it with something that makes more sense to you) and I don't think it is fair to say that he is doing these things because he is just a "seme in a BL." He believed that he was betrayed by a friend he trusted so much due to misunderstandings, but now that Yeonduk proved those misunderstandings wrong, he realized that he fucked up. So my point is, it's not all about yeonduk, the story is also shwoi g how much Skylar receiving a second opportunity can change.
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i've read comments like "skyler has to suffer" and comments like "he suffered enough"
people, it's not about skyler, it's about yeonduk, he's the one who suffered because of skyler, the fact that skyler has a difficult family situation doesn't mead he had the right to be a jerk towards someone who just wanted to be by his side and doesn't cancell what he did, at the same time he doesn't have to suffer to be forgiven by yeonduk
he should give yeonduk spase and time to forget and forgive instead of being always around and being pushy