It's super hard to know how 'cause everybody's different. It's extra hard if you're not turned on. Once you figure out your unique recipe it's great! Ya just gotta keep pokin around and see what feels good, and yeah it helps if you're already feeling twirly.
no, i don't like to mast0rbate, its quite boring.
Some women have extreme difficulty with orgasming from penetration but direct clitoral stimulation works for nearly everyone and while there are literally tons of videos, literature, and gadgets to help you out...your relationship with your body is still very personally and ultimately only you will be able figure out the secret to your own orgasm. Not surprisingly, there's something like 70% or more of women who never realized they weren't climaxing until the day it happened for real and the reason behind this is that, unlike for men, a huge part of fulfilling a woman's needs lies in the journey to get there. Relax, don't over think it. Maybe a warm bubble bath with some scented candles and some music that puts in the mood, then just take your time exploring not just the magic bean but also finding your own personal erogenous zones...places on your body you like to be touched. Chances are that you're still not going to get the full effect the first try but in the meantime you'll be enjoying yourself until that moment finally cums.
I don't really touch myself, it's hardwork and boring cause once I stop to take a break cause im tired and meh hands hurt, I just stop all together.
Instead I just squeeze my legs and surpising that does the trick (づ￣ ³￣)づ Oh but if Im not in the mood and just doing it cause im bored af, my legs will hurt alooot
I don't, mainly because i kinda don't really know how. I know as a girl you can use your finger (I don't feel anything from that) or rub the nub or whatever but it doesn't really work for me. I can feel something but I never get to that 'wow' moment or something that I read about so I just don't.