He was undoubtedly an asshole at first, but i think it wasn't in an intentional way and he ended up being just fine once he learned what was and wasn't okay. It's like, rather than an intentional asshole, he's more of an airhead? Which is better, to me at least. He's just very dependent on the uke and doesn't seem to understand some of the social graces. They were like a married couple with the husband being super dense, which i thought was cute. The uke was like a dutifull housewife taking care of his airhead husband. The seme said he was still seeing callgirls even after the uke confessed (he said that chick was the 2nd. Note that it isn't until that guy calls him a sleezebag for sleeping around that he realizes what he's doing is considered a betrayal to the uke's feelings, then he feels guilty thinking about it), which makes you think he's JUST cheating, but then it goes on to show that he seems to be sexually frustrated and he's not sure how strongly the uke really feels about him since he's the only one who seems to want to progress their relationship. He feels strongly enough about this that he gets irritated and tries to make the uke jealous by saying he slept with her to get a rise even though he didn't actually sleep with her. Was it a dick move? Yes. But his intentions in that lie were to try and move them forward. You have to keep in mind that it was really the seme who brought them together, the uke was just going to try and stay as friends. Don't get me wrong, the uke put in plenty of effort just staying with him for years and confessing, but he became a problem to their progression and it was the seme's efforts that really made them a couple once the uke confessed.
He was undoubtedly an asshole at first, but i think it wasn't in an intentional way and he ended up being just fine once he learned what was and wasn't okay. It's like, rather than an intentional asshole, he's more of an airhead? Which is better, to me at least. He's just very dependent on the uke and doesn't seem to understand some of the social graces. They were like a married couple with the husband being super dense, which i thought was cute. The uke was like a dutifull housewife taking care of his airhead husband. The seme said he was still seeing callgirls even after the uke confessed (he said that chick was the 2nd. Note that it isn't until that guy calls him a sleezebag for sleeping around that he realizes what he's doing is considered a betrayal to the uke's feelings, then he feels guilty thinking about it), which makes you think he's JUST cheating, but then it goes on to show that he seems to be sexually frustrated and he's not sure how strongly the uke really feels about him since he's the only one who seems to want to progress their relationship. He feels strongly enough about this that he gets irritated and tries to make the uke jealous by saying he slept with her to get a rise even though he didn't actually sleep with her. Was it a dick move? Yes. But his intentions in that lie were to try and move them forward. You have to keep in mind that it was really the seme who brought them together, the uke was just going to try and stay as friends. Don't get me wrong, the uke put in plenty of effort just staying with him for years and confessing, but he became a problem to their progression and it was the seme's efforts that really made them a couple once the uke confessed.