Agreed. It's in real life too!ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
In BL it makes sense that they'd normally go through it alone though. In half of the stories, they keep their relationship a total secret from those around them. (Still, I agree that asking for help is good.)
Yes thats true. I do like it sometimes when they trying their best to do everything right on their own. But most of the time I got the feeling: gosh he is so dump :(
I do think it's clever to ask for help, specially when he don't know what to do anymore. It's so refreshing and it makes me like him even more! Still doesn't mean her advice will be working, but at least he isn't dump ^^
I like that Girl. And I'm happy he's going to ask her for advice. It always bugs me that people in romance manga used to try to solve everything on their own. Ask for help! Talk to someone about it. You don't have to go through everything alone >___<