He doesn't have sincere feeling for bum. He's attracted to him because he looks like his mom. That's all. no romance here
I don't think that's true at a 100%, Bum it's a male and in the vacation to the sky park that was that lady with her son and she looked exactly like his mom and he showed no interest in her at all (in a sexual way) he even watch her die.
And sangwoo didn't feel like this in the beginning tho this "feeling" for bum started to grow slowly I wouldn't go as far to say he's "in love" but there is some feelings growing
when he said he couldn't get Bum out of his mind he also added that he was scared of realizing why he was so drawn towards him. To me it feels as if he knows that he kept Bum by his side because he reminded him of his mother, but at the same time he is, perhaps, starting to feel something towards Bum.
Obsession and attraction are a form of love, ya know. Just cuz it is very ugly doesn't mean it isn't love. Yes, it isn't romantic, but it is love regardless. It scares the shit out of me and it is so fucked up, but it is still love.
No it's not. It's attachment. Obsession isn't a part of love at all. It's a part of possession. Love isn't ugly. Love isn't mean to scare. This shit is literally just attachment. Stop trying to justify this. Their relationship is sickening and there's no romance here. If Sangwoo loved Bum so much he would've let him go, y'know why? Because when you love someone, you want them to be happy. You want them to be safe. You want to care for them even if that means letting them go. NO. MATTER. WHAT. There are no exceptions. Love is selfless. Love doesn't take, it gives. Sangwoo is clearly psychologically damaged from his traumatic childhood. What he feels for Bum is some sort of attachment that's closely related to his feelings for his mother. That is not love. Please don't go on thinking that this is ok otherwise you might just end up in a fucked up relationship thinking that its alright because your partner claims they love you despite them hurting and betraying you.
I'd say there's feelings there but i dont think its love at all. This isn't what love is. I think Sangwoo is just attached to Bum in someway relating to his mother. You saw what he said in this new chapter. He even once said something along the lines of "no matter how hard i try you just aren't like her" and he was referencing his mom there. The reason why im being so defensive is because people are using the "feelings" there to justify Sangwoo's behavior and actions.
I'm not justifying his behavior, we all know he is fucked up. My point is that despite how fucked up he is, he starting to notice he can't take Bum out of his mind. Call it obsession, twisted kind of "love" or whatever, but the thing is that at the beginning Bum was just a thing and now is like "why do I think about you like this if this hasn't happened before?"
And that makes think about what he is going to do with Bum in the end,is he going to kill him or is he going to keep seeing his mom as Bum?
Never justifying just wondering what will happen now that he, for the first time in his life, is thinking about someone, perhaps, with no killing intention.
Who is justifying this or thinking this is OK, idiot?
Oh, I can understand that and i do agree with you. My apologies for misunderstanding
um, YOU are. You said so yourself that its scary, obsessive, ugly, and scary BUT it's love. By saying "but" you're trying to justify it and saying everything is ok since love is involved. Don't try to lie lmao it's clear what you were trying to say.
No, YOU are. "BUT" it is love doesn't mean "I justify his action and it is ok". When I say somebody is an asshole BUT he has good lookings, it doesn't mean I justify him being an asshole.
It is unhealthy, bad, blah blah blah, but it is love. It doesn't make it less bad, nor do I say it is OK.
Jfc. Also, fuck off am not trying to impress you why would I need to lie to you dumbass?
I think Sangwoo feels so much hatred towards his mom because despite everything that he did to him and to his father, he liked to have sex with his mom. Reality and memories are intertwining now and when he says to Bum that he likes how it feels, makes me think that he also felt good when having sex, aka been raped, with his mom hence he call out to her.
He hates her, and hates her even more because he liked the sex.
Now, after that story he said to Bum that he couldn't get him out of his mind... maybe he's started to have sincere feelings towards Bum it's just that he doesn't know what real affection is for what he has learned ever since he is a kid is twisted affection.
I can't wait for the next chapter. Two years reading this and I'm not tired at all. :p