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Wooow . That's a long ass comment , dude
Hm as a gay guy I totally agree with this. The only thing is that this only (or at least from what I’ve seen) only exists in manga, boy’s love dramas, etc.. because women think this is how it is which is sad because it isn’t like that at all in real life. All gay people I know and my exes we’re always down to experiment (I’m a verse bottom and they’re usually just toos), I’ve never had someone be like “oh you’re cute so you should just stay as a bottom because that’s how it is” which just sounds stupid lmao
neither of the two young boys have had sex before. Who's to say if you're only capable of being a "top" or "bottom" that is literally the wonders of sex between men you have options. It actually pissed me off reading this chapter because it boils down the problem of "seme vs.uke" trope to it's core. That certain characteristics of an individual mean they're forced into the box of their sexual position defining their personality to themselves and to their partner's. The whole your partner is so cute when i make them the "bottom" is implying that their submissiveness in bed but otherwise defiant personality is what turns you on.If neither of you have even had the possibility to define what turns you on in bed, what's the harm in allowing yourself the opportunity to experience something new fully? If you can't top and hate the experience or you can't bottom and hate the experience then you've learned. Changes can then be made to accommodate everyone in the relationship. It's just so annoying how a chapter that was meant to be sweet unintentionally I'm sure just reduced an otherwise wholesome gay relationship to a giant stereotype of who's the "woman in the relationship". Plus not all gay males like even having anal sex, some relationships perform other sexual acts or none at all, lest we not forget asexuals who are homoromantic. I'd never pick up a manga and expect it to be politically correct, but this was a perfect opportunity for a teaching moment for two young gay men who were uncertain about themselves, and it would have been so much better if yes they had even gone with he rock paper scissors route because not only been fair but a perfectly childish way within reason to take a leap of faith. Later if we have another delinquent bottom because we are bound by principle of well it's cute to see him looking ravaged, it's because he choose and decided for himself he'd prefer the experience or even hell wants to switch it up later too. It's disrespectful to expect your partner to roll over and bottom for you simply because you don't have the courage to make yourself vulnerable in turn and then be sulky you didn't get your way, clearly you're still child not ready for sex.