Someone tell these kids that switching is an option and that you don't have to decide a ro...

Literally thought to myself at the end ‘become a power bottom’ you’ll make the boy cry in lust when you control his release point. You’ll still see him be adorable

I think it's because it's their first time, it's quite important (well, not for everyone, it's not a general point of view I know). But to me, first time is really important, like it's almost a mountain to climb. So, I can understand why they want to have the role they have always imagine having (from the beginning, they both wanted to be top, and now they have to decide, for their first time, who is going to be what). But I think they can first get in the mood, I'm not an expert, but maybe it will come naturally (like Aki and Tomoharu, they did not even think about it). Well, we'll see haha

Certainly forpeople that make the first time an important event would be worried about those kinds of things. I just think that the stress from it would lessen if they get to know that they have more options aside of the ones they are struggling with. In real life, total bottoms or total tops that end up becoming couples, usually compromise, for the sake of having a healthy relationship, they are teenagers so they don't know about that kind of interactions due lack of experience, so better explain it to them to make things easier, no? Tomo and Aki never needed it cuz they already had roles on mind before jumping in, even before discussing it, and happened to align perfectly with each others needs, but in this case doesn't, so discussing and compromising is the better solution o/ I know is easier said than done, but I insist that they should know only to lessen the pressure from it.

Yeah, I totally agree, they don't think about all the options. And it's true that Aki and Tomoharu are like "more experienced men", but yeah they should totally think about every options they can have haha. Honestly, for the first time, I don't know which one should be the top or the bottom, so sekes seem quite altright. Hope they will feel comfortable with it and do it with pleasure, and not with pressure as you said.