A quick question

I think it depends on your values. Even though your mental state takes a toll, all you want is for your loved sick person to get better and not die.
Speaking from experience.
Miss Doh is just selfish.
So, no need for trust issues when you actually are loved.
To a certain extent, I think it's ok to wish for someone's death if them living will bring them so much more pain than dying. If there's no hope whatsoever of getting better. If they wouldn't be able to experience any joy for the rest of their life.
But for miss Doh, her father's illness was just getting in the way of her marriage.

I'm speaking from experience as well, though (not personal but from stories that I have heard) where people do feel completely resentful. It's mainly a myth that people are always altruistic, especially in the circumstances that Ms. Doh finds herself in (being saddled with the financial responsibilities and not allowed to seek support from someone else, whether emotionally or monetarily, as her mother and so many on here seem to believe, unfortunately). And as I told someone else we have NO idea what her relationship with her father was like before he became ill.

T.

Well, I think not only marriage, a normal young person's life maybe? Anyways, death is always a very scary thing in my opinion, more because it obviously causes so much pain to everyone around （￣へ￣）

Yes, I agree. There is always so many sides to a story and it is impossible to judge anyone with a mere part of one of the POV's. That's why I can never take sides in a conflict? ╮(￣▽￣)╭