that comment was bad, but I gotta say that in reality most couples are reversible, of course people can have a preference, etc but in yaoi manga it's crazy how most of them not even consider switching... I think this manga is so precious and rare, and it's sad that the comments session are discussing this instead of the awesomeness of the story
Did I say the AUTHOR?! if u had read the other comments, you would know who im addressing. Also, I did mention the term compromise and in that last sentence so ima take a swing at it and assume u didn't see the word or u dont know what it means bc otherwise theres no reason for you to mention that entire second portion of ur response

All relationships are different and decided on the individuals, are there relationships with interchangeable bed roles? sure. Are there those who enjoy doing one thing over the other? Hell yea. To say that a "healthy" relationship of any kind needs people to equally take one up the ass or vagina is absurd. I mean,compromising is a basic commitment when you are in a relationship and if both parties want to switch up in sex, that is fine but don't generalize as "all healthy relationships- blahblahblah"