Responses
That was super hot, ofc, but I def don't see it as a healthy representation of a BDSM relationship. It was super sexy and all that, but yes, I also found the uke as a victim.
First of all, he didn't really consent when he got drunk. He didn't even know what he was getting into.
Second, yup. There were no limits, no discussion.
I love bdsm. But despite the alluring kinks here plus the nice art, my warning signals as a dom makes this whole story unnerving. The line between sub and victim is actually pretty fucking thick. And in my mind, this kid's a victim because this is an inferiority complex being taken advantage of. There are no hard limits, no safety measures, no prior and post explanations or discussions, its all to sate the specific desires of the sadist alone, and because of the amazing adaptability of humans, the poor sub gets used to five years of abuse only for the sadist to up his torture methods to get the same reaction? The guy's going to end up killing him. I want to say I liked it, but honestly by the end I'm just slightly distressed at the implications of their relationship.
Just as a side note, I understand with either gifted or experienced individual, safe words are not necessary but discussion always is. Not a through explanation of the procedure obviously, that would remove the thrill factor. But just establishing stop signals (serious sobbing for one, screams instead of shouts or moans) things like that. Regardless of how good a dom is, every sub, no every person, is completely different with very specific needs.